Oof, that's a lot, smonster. Wishing you clarity.
All of my best thoughts to you and your family, lisah.
Glad there's a temporary ceasefire, at least, but I know that's not enough.
And don't you ever stand for that sort of thing. Someone ever tries to kill you, you try to kill 'em right back! ... You got the right same as anyone to live and try to kill people.
Mal ,'Our Mrs. Reynolds'
Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
Jesse - Nov 22, 2023 6:13:46 am PST #26976 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.
Jessica - Nov 22, 2023 6:46:55 am PST #26977 of 30000
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset
{{lisah}}
smonster, what a shitty situation. I hope you're able to navigate your way to a better place.
JenP - Nov 22, 2023 6:58:04 am PST #26978 of 30000
Well, shit, smonster. That is awful. I'm sorry. Like, Jesse said, I wish you clarity.
Shir - Nov 22, 2023 7:25:58 am PST #26979 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".
Oh smonster, I am so, so sorry. {{{}}}
-t - Nov 22, 2023 7:43:02 am PST #26980 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
Oh, smonster, I’m sorry.
Pix - Nov 22, 2023 7:48:20 am PST #26981 of 30000
The status is NOT quo.
((((lisah)))) I can't add any words of wisdom, but I'm holding you in my heart.
Continued love and support to Nilly and Shir.
((((smonster)))) I'm sorry you're dealing with that. I do think getting away from emotional or financial manipulation (aka abuse) is crucial for your well-being. I hope you can take someone with you when you go to get your things, which it sounds like you are planning to do. Hang in there.
lisah - Nov 22, 2023 8:04:17 am PST #26982 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate
Oh, smonster, I’m so sorry but I’m glad you’re recognizing what’s going on and taking care of yourself.
Laura - Nov 22, 2023 8:29:35 am PST #26983 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.
I'm so sorry, smonster. Be gentle with yourself.
-t - Nov 22, 2023 9:02:53 am PST #26984 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
Very glad you are looking out or your own wellbeing, smonster
smonster - Nov 22, 2023 9:27:31 am PST #26985 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
Thanks, everyone. It sucks so hard. I am resourcing myself - getting a key from a neighbor in case they show up here (I’m not worried about physical danger, just emotional manipulation). Meeting a friend at 2 pm. Plans for Thanksgiving. Making a plan to get my stuff and my cat back this weekend with friends (one of whom is a very, very large Cajun).
Totally dreading talking to my dad about this.