Oof, that's a lot, smonster. Wishing you clarity.
All of my best thoughts to you and your family, lisah.
Glad there's a temporary ceasefire, at least, but I know that's not enough.
We're taking a moment ... and we're done.
Oz ,'Chosen'
Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
Jesse - Nov 22, 2023 6:13:46 am PST #26976 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.
Jessica - Nov 22, 2023 6:46:55 am PST #26977 of 30000
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset
{{lisah}}
smonster, what a shitty situation. I hope you're able to navigate your way to a better place.
JenP - Nov 22, 2023 6:58:04 am PST #26978 of 30000
Well, shit, smonster. That is awful. I'm sorry. Like, Jesse said, I wish you clarity.
Shir - Nov 22, 2023 7:25:58 am PST #26979 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".
Oh smonster, I am so, so sorry. {{{}}}
-t - Nov 22, 2023 7:43:02 am PST #26980 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
Oh, smonster, I’m sorry.
Pix - Nov 22, 2023 7:48:20 am PST #26981 of 30000
The status is NOT quo.
((((lisah)))) I can't add any words of wisdom, but I'm holding you in my heart.
Continued love and support to Nilly and Shir.
((((smonster)))) I'm sorry you're dealing with that. I do think getting away from emotional or financial manipulation (aka abuse) is crucial for your well-being. I hope you can take someone with you when you go to get your things, which it sounds like you are planning to do. Hang in there.
lisah - Nov 22, 2023 8:04:17 am PST #26982 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate
Oh, smonster, I’m so sorry but I’m glad you’re recognizing what’s going on and taking care of yourself.
Laura - Nov 22, 2023 8:29:35 am PST #26983 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.
I'm so sorry, smonster. Be gentle with yourself.
-t - Nov 22, 2023 9:02:53 am PST #26984 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
Very glad you are looking out or your own wellbeing, smonster
smonster - Nov 22, 2023 9:27:31 am PST #26985 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
Thanks, everyone. It sucks so hard. I am resourcing myself - getting a key from a neighbor in case they show up here (I’m not worried about physical danger, just emotional manipulation). Meeting a friend at 2 pm. Plans for Thanksgiving. Making a plan to get my stuff and my cat back this weekend with friends (one of whom is a very, very large Cajun).
Totally dreading talking to my dad about this.