Sometimes a thing gets broke, can't be fixed.

Kaylee ,'Out Of Gas'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


DavidS - Nov 17, 2023 7:37:25 pm PST #26876 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Tomorrow morning Dylan and I are flying down to Mexico for a week--just the two of us.

How fun! I hope you have an amazing trip.

Just today I made plans for one of my high school friends to come down to SF (with her family) to see a Bowie tribute concert in January, and tentatively (but enthusiastically) discussed arranging a trip to Spain with Matilda guided by some college friends (who have both spent extensive time in Spain) as guides.

I'm trying to figure out what my life looks like going forward and this seems like a way forward. I'm 62. I'm keenly aware I'll be 70 in 8 years. I really want to exercise the financial freedom I have to maximize these kinds of experiences, especially to open things up for Matilda.

This year has been stress and loss and loss and loss. I want to be hopeful about things. To be excited about what's on the horizon.


Susan W. - Nov 17, 2023 7:54:46 pm PST #26877 of 30000
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

This year has been stress and loss and loss and loss. I want to be hopeful about things. To be excited about what's on the horizon.

Your plans sound like a great step in that direction. Of all the places I've ever been, I think Spain is my favorite. May I recommend Salamanca? It's not quite off the beaten path, but it's also not one of the standard places Americans always go IME. We only went there on our 2015 trip because it was a chance to tour one of Wellington's battlefield with an English guide (an English guide who kept turning to Dylan expecting HIM to be the expert and the one interested in the battle, which led to me putting on my most bravura display of Peninsular War expertise despite it being bad form to try to one-up your tour guide, but DUDE. We kept telling you!), but we ended up falling in love with the town. Eating dinner in the central plaza on a long June evening was pure joy.


DavidS - Nov 17, 2023 7:59:53 pm PST #26878 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

which led to me putting on my most bravura display of Peninsular War expertise despite it being bad form to try to one-up your tour guide, but DUDE.

Ha! I will keep Salamanca in mind!


NoiseDesign - Nov 17, 2023 8:10:51 pm PST #26879 of 30000
Our wings are not tired

Barcelona! I cannot recommend it enough, it's just such an amazing city.


DavidS - Nov 17, 2023 8:18:48 pm PST #26880 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Barcelona! I cannot recommend it enough, it's just such an amazing city.

I'm a huge Gaudi fan, so...


Laura - Nov 17, 2023 8:51:18 pm PST #26881 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

I think I'm going to think of graham crackers and "The cookies for marshmallows" for awhile now.

That is so cute. Also, I do love graham crackers.

I have no plans most of the weekend and super just want to relax after a stressful week

That sounds like a wonderful plan, but I think it probably will be more working than relaxing, again. Ugh.

Mr. S was discharged from the hospital today. We’ll see how things go from here.

Sending much calm~ma your way.

Tomorrow morning Dylan and I are flying down to Mexico for a week--just the two of us.

Have a glorious time!

This year has been stress and loss and loss and loss. I want to be hopeful about things. To be excited about what's on the horizon.

Yes, that is what I wish for you and Matilda.


brenda m - Nov 18, 2023 5:41:35 am PST #26882 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Nora, I’m so sorry. Peace to you.

Spain sound like a marvelous plan, and a good step into this new approach to an unexpected and unasked for life path. (But I’m pretty sure that 70 thing is bunk.)


Pix - Nov 18, 2023 5:50:33 am PST #26883 of 30000
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

I'm just here to chant BARCELONA over and over again. It is my favorite city in the world.


Jesse - Nov 18, 2023 5:51:19 am PST #26884 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Oh no, Nora, I'm so sorry. It's always sudden.


JenP - Nov 18, 2023 7:40:20 am PST #26885 of 30000

I'm so sorry, Nora.