What is your childhood trauma?

Cordelia ,'Lessons'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


-t - Nov 16, 2023 8:50:36 am PST #26841 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

That's so great, Atropa!

I hear you, Hec. Those are big waves that get set off by the not-a-regular-part-of-current-life things

{{Bev}}


DavidS - Nov 16, 2023 9:14:33 am PST #26842 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Those are big waves that get set off by the not-a-regular-part-of-current-life things

That was it. I wrote about it because mostly I'm not sad. I'm carrying on. But it just kept coming in waves when I was in the East Bay because I could see the long arc of our marriage from a different perspective.

It's sunny again in SF and I shouldn't complain about it, but I really wish the cool Fall air would arrive and stay.

Off to run and then chip away at the tasks which have piled up while we had Nicole here.


erikaj - Nov 16, 2023 9:37:35 am PST #26843 of 30000
I'm a fucking amazing catch!--Fiona Gallagher, Shameless(US)

Sometimes, since Matthew Perry passed recently also, I imagine that he and JZ are in an ATM vestibule somewhere. Because one of the first things we bonded over that wasn't about the group was that episode and how cute "gum would be perfection" is. I imagine she'd have many thoughts about the word "vestibule" too. (Not saying that's true in any way. I just like to picture it.)


-t - Nov 16, 2023 10:24:26 am PST #26844 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

That's rather delightful, erika. I am charmed.


erikaj - Nov 16, 2023 10:40:27 am PST #26845 of 30000
I'm a fucking amazing catch!--Fiona Gallagher, Shameless(US)

Well, thank you. I literally don't hear that every day.


-t - Nov 16, 2023 10:43:54 am PST #26846 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Completely unrelated to anything y'all are talking about - my company's affiliated winery is offering us 50% off their current release wines (they are much fancier than the wine I naturally gravitate to, they do library releases and have a "tasting salon" rather than a tasting room and even with the 50% off I would not I would not be looking at bottles with these prices at the grocery store or BevMo, but I still kinda feel like buying some? Because it's a good deal? I went through and picked out 8 that sound pretty good and am trying to remember if I like Pinot Noir. Not particularly, I don't think, although I don't dislike it as such, either. There's a "vertical tasting" of 2015-2018 that is intriguing just because vertical tastings are always interesting but would I ever really do that and can I distinguish between pinots enough to make it worthwhile?

Has there ever been a more first world problem? So bougie


JenP - Nov 16, 2023 11:08:55 am PST #26847 of 30000

I love that problem. I have no advice other than get you some 'o dat.


-t - Nov 16, 2023 11:13:01 am PST #26848 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I will take the validation!


erikaj - Nov 16, 2023 11:27:48 am PST #26849 of 30000
I'm a fucking amazing catch!--Fiona Gallagher, Shameless(US)

Sounds nice, although I do like whites better. Riesling or pinot grigio.


-t - Nov 16, 2023 12:18:55 pm PST #26850 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

You take the whites and I'll take the reds, erika, and between us we can cover it all. Riesling is not for me - I don't even like the grapes - so I'm always happy that someone else can enjoy my share

I splurged and got everything I was considering. They will deliver it to my workplace and I feel like having a case of wine under my desk will somehow improve my days at the office as I slowly deplete it (by bringing a bottle home now and then, not by drinking during meetings, as pleasant a prospect as that sometimes seems)