Those are big waves that get set off by the not-a-regular-part-of-current-life things

That was it. I wrote about it because mostly I'm not sad. I'm carrying on. But it just kept coming in waves when I was in the East Bay because I could see the long arc of our marriage from a different perspective.

It's sunny again in SF and I shouldn't complain about it, but I really wish the cool Fall air would arrive and stay.

Off to run and then chip away at the tasks which have piled up while we had Nicole here.

Sometimes, since Matthew Perry passed recently also, I imagine that he and JZ are in an ATM vestibule somewhere. Because one of the first things we bonded over that wasn't about the group was that episode and how cute "gum would be perfection" is. I imagine she'd have many thoughts about the word "vestibule" too. (Not saying that's true in any way. I just like to picture it.)

That's rather delightful, erika. I am charmed.

Well, thank you. I literally don't hear that every day.

Completely unrelated to anything y'all are talking about - my company's affiliated winery is offering us 50% off their current release wines (they are much fancier than the wine I naturally gravitate to, they do library releases and have a "tasting salon" rather than a tasting room and even with the 50% off I would not I would not be looking at bottles with these prices at the grocery store or BevMo, but I still kinda feel like buying some? Because it's a good deal? I went through and picked out 8 that sound pretty good and am trying to remember if I like Pinot Noir. Not particularly, I don't think, although I don't dislike it as such, either. There's a "vertical tasting" of 2015-2018 that is intriguing just because vertical tastings are always interesting but would I ever really do that and can I distinguish between pinots enough to make it worthwhile?

Has there ever been a more first world problem? So bougie

I love that problem. I have no advice other than get you some 'o dat.

I will take the validation!

Sounds nice, although I do like whites better. Riesling or pinot grigio.

You take the whites and I'll take the reds, erika, and between us we can cover it all. Riesling is not for me - I don't even like the grapes - so I'm always happy that someone else can enjoy my share

I splurged and got everything I was considering. They will deliver it to my workplace and I feel like having a case of wine under my desk will somehow improve my days at the office as I slowly deplete it (by bringing a bottle home now and then, not by drinking during meetings, as pleasant a prospect as that sometimes seems)

There's a "vertical tasting" of 2015-2018 that is intriguing just because vertical tastings are always interesting but would I ever really do that and can I distinguish between pinots enough to make it worthwhile?

I feel like that would be interesting as a wine flight but not as bottles because I would not open them all at once or drink in quick enough succession to remember how they compared.