Mal: There's plenty orders of mine that she didn't obey. Wash: Name one! Mal: She married you!

'War Stories'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Amy - Oct 21, 2023 9:37:46 am PDT #26327 of 30000
Because books.

Aw, sj, that's sweet. But she'll adapt. And I saw the picture and it looks great!

David, that sounds definitely Undelightful. Hope the next part goes easy on you.

smonster, that is a lot of lead paint. Ouch.

Shir, thank you for being willing to share this experience with us, even if we all wish it could be a less horrific one.

Shoulder surgery bites, and the recovery really sucks. I'm still stuck in this sling (24/7 except when showering or dressing, and yes keeping it on to sleep) for three more weeks. Going mildly stir-crazy here.


Shir - Oct 21, 2023 11:11:25 am PDT #26328 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Oh, Amy, much recovery~ma, and health~ma in general to all buffistas.

I'm OK. A bit tired, as usual. A part of me is even starting to get used to this, somehow - or maybe it's the shock that's letting go. I thoroughly cleaned the house today, and soon it'll be shower time.

People, let me tell you about showers here. When there's a siren you have 15-90 seconds to get to shelter, depends where you are (I'm in the luxurious 90 seconds zone). There are several ways to handle this. Some people started to wash body parts separately in less time to be at least semi dressed. But my favorite response is from people who are trying to use statistics to understand when it's safer to take a shower. Out of that came a whole theology of "don't shower at xx:00", including graphs and what not. It's a whole thing.

It's been two weeks. There are still names and bodies being identified and funerals, after two weeks. And the Israeli media doesn't report what we're doing in Gaza to a point that worries me. If there's a mention, it's a minor one. People don't get the picture.


Sheryl - Oct 21, 2023 11:51:34 am PDT #26329 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Hugs to Shir, Nilly, David and anyone else who needs them. Went to the supermarket this morning, and am just hanging around the room now.


aurelia - Oct 21, 2023 1:15:12 pm PDT #26330 of 30000
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

Remember when someone was gonna make, like, chips for ladies? Did that actually happen?

I just heard a story that included part of the interview that came from! [link] It turns out the internet ran with the sound-byte sans context (imagine that!). The idea was to make snack options that would fit within how their studies showed women ate chips (less finger residue, packs that fit in a purse). Not "chips-for-her" pink packaging kind of stuff.


Cashmere - Oct 21, 2023 6:14:30 pm PDT #26331 of 30000
Now tagless for your comfort.

Apparently I’m not mommy if I can’t put my hair in a messy bun.

Ooof. Mom Bobs are a thing!


Nilly - Oct 22, 2023 1:15:02 am PDT #26332 of 30000
Swouncing

Sunday Timelies!

Hmm, let's see if I can put any content in this post, other than the timelies and the good vibes for health and peace and all good things for mind and soul and body for all y'all.

PiBoy is at school today (he doesn't like school on principle, and he dislikes anything that takes him away from the Minecraft server (goodness, I hope I'm using the right word) he's building, so I consider him even attending school as a win).

His school is really struggling in maintaining any sort of lessons routine, because at least half of the teachers in this school are enlisted (the person in charge of all 7th to 9th grades gave them a short online talk last Friday, while wearing uniforms and being away from home, which was very moving). Most of what they've managed to do was online, for the past couple of weeks (which PiBoy was totally OK with, because he could listen and even participate while having his Minecraft game open on another screen), but today they've managed to arrange for almost all of the pupils of the school to be there in person.

Pi+Girl had a friend over for their online classes (they're goofing around only about half of the time, and they're chatting and laughing, so it's another win in my book).

(Pi+Girl's friend's father was enlisted two weeks ago, and she's only seen him briefly for a couple of hours of leave he had last week. Their house doesn't have a safe room (again, I hope I'm using the right word), so the whole family - minus the father, obviously - is staying with friends, whose house does have a safe room, large enough to contain both families. You can understand how much I admire Pi+Girl's friend's mom, who still manages to work while juggling all this, and her daughter even had all the right textbooks when arriving at our place this morning! And also the family who hosts them for so long - even both familes' dogs get along!).


JenP - Oct 22, 2023 7:15:04 am PDT #26333 of 30000

Good to hear how the PiKids are doing and to see you, Nilly. So much love to you and yours.


lisah - Oct 22, 2023 7:33:07 am PDT #26334 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

Glad to hear the Pi kids are taking things in stride and, especially, that your girl is able to see her friend.

Sending love to you all, Nilly


meara - Oct 22, 2023 9:56:15 am PDT #26335 of 30000

Im impressed at anyone managing to hold it together in your area right now Nilly, wow! (Also amazed the children are that old?! Somehow not still toddlers??)


Shir - Oct 22, 2023 11:29:19 am PDT #26336 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

I can confirm that Nilly's kids are no longer toddlers. Two days before the war started I saw them (and Nilly) with my own eyes.

I'm OK as can be. Here's today's link: [link]