You have the emotional maturity of a blueberry scone.

Giles ,'Touched'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Karl - Oct 06, 2023 10:00:09 pm PDT #25914 of 30000
I adore all you motherfuckers so much -- PMM.

smonster, I just got up from a nap to escape the unseasonable heat, and I'll be up for another three-four hours at least. Profile addy is good if you'd rather chat in private, but I'm ok with chatting in-thread too if that's easier for you.

And I promise not to take it personally if you change your mind.


Shir - Oct 07, 2023 3:18:18 am PDT #25915 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

(Absolutely awful news this morning, I'm logging in just to say I'm OK. Several rounds of sirens in Jerusalem and in third of the country. I'll check with Nilly after Shabbat is over. I'm staying safe).


Steph L. - Oct 07, 2023 6:31:14 am PDT #25916 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

Shir, thanks for checking in. The news is terrible, and I'm glad you're okay.


smonster - Oct 07, 2023 6:56:06 am PDT #25917 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Karl, thank you so much. I ended up crying myself to sleep eventually. Didn’t even see your offer until this morning.

Well, now I really don’t want to look at the news, which isn’t much different than the norm.

Thank you for checking in, Shir. Sending love and calming vibes y’all’s way.


JenP - Oct 07, 2023 7:03:39 am PDT #25918 of 30000

Oh, thank you for checking in, Shir. How awful and frightening. Sending all my stay safe vibes.

How are you doing this morning, smonster?


Shir - Oct 07, 2023 7:14:27 am PDT #25919 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

I coordinated shelter prep this morning with some neighbors and have a go bag. I also closed the storm shutters in case of blast waves from nearby hits. I'm trying not to check the news too often, or think of those I know in the south. It is horrific there and I'm very deliberately not watching any videos.

I'm now trying to see when I can go and donate blood (the centers are swamped right now so this might only be tomorrow or on Monday), and what can I do to help the civil groups who will be out tonight to protect people in East Jerusalem and mixed neighborhoods from those who think that all non Jews are a threat.

I'm also betting on whether or not I have the time to take a shower. I'm three and a half floors from the shelter and have 90 seconds to get there.

And I'm tired, physically and metaphorically.


JenP - Oct 07, 2023 7:27:20 am PDT #25920 of 30000

I'm so sorry, Shir. I cannot adequately imagine what this is like for you, and the constant vigilance for threat to safety of yourself and others has to be exhausting on every level physically mentally, and emotionally. I'm so sorry.


Shir - Oct 07, 2023 7:39:17 am PDT #25921 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Thanks, JenP. I'm far less worried about myself, and way more concerned for others, in Israel and Palestine.

50 years since 1973. Not the same because only one front, but they sure did put in the effort for this anniversary.


JenP - Oct 07, 2023 7:45:01 am PDT #25922 of 30000

I'm far less worried about myself, and way more concerned for others, in Israel and Palestine.

That has always been so clear, friend.


Laura - Oct 07, 2023 7:45:09 am PDT #25923 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

First, the good news. Today we celebrate the birthday of JenP. Happiest birthday wishes!! May the world and all around you spoil you and provide delightful surprises this day and throughout the year.

smonster, I am sorry it is so rough. I hope today is smoother.

{{Shir}} So scary and horrible. Please check in if possible.