Am I supposed to be changing my clothes a lot? Is that the helpful thing to do?

Anya ,'Storyteller'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Shir - Oct 07, 2023 7:14:27 am PDT #25919 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

I coordinated shelter prep this morning with some neighbors and have a go bag. I also closed the storm shutters in case of blast waves from nearby hits. I'm trying not to check the news too often, or think of those I know in the south. It is horrific there and I'm very deliberately not watching any videos.

I'm now trying to see when I can go and donate blood (the centers are swamped right now so this might only be tomorrow or on Monday), and what can I do to help the civil groups who will be out tonight to protect people in East Jerusalem and mixed neighborhoods from those who think that all non Jews are a threat.

I'm also betting on whether or not I have the time to take a shower. I'm three and a half floors from the shelter and have 90 seconds to get there.

And I'm tired, physically and metaphorically.


JenP - Oct 07, 2023 7:27:20 am PDT #25920 of 30000

I'm so sorry, Shir. I cannot adequately imagine what this is like for you, and the constant vigilance for threat to safety of yourself and others has to be exhausting on every level physically mentally, and emotionally. I'm so sorry.


Shir - Oct 07, 2023 7:39:17 am PDT #25921 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Thanks, JenP. I'm far less worried about myself, and way more concerned for others, in Israel and Palestine.

50 years since 1973. Not the same because only one front, but they sure did put in the effort for this anniversary.


JenP - Oct 07, 2023 7:45:01 am PDT #25922 of 30000

I'm far less worried about myself, and way more concerned for others, in Israel and Palestine.

That has always been so clear, friend.


Laura - Oct 07, 2023 7:45:09 am PDT #25923 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

First, the good news. Today we celebrate the birthday of JenP. Happiest birthday wishes!! May the world and all around you spoil you and provide delightful surprises this day and throughout the year.

smonster, I am sorry it is so rough. I hope today is smoother.

{{Shir}} So scary and horrible. Please check in if possible.


meara - Oct 07, 2023 8:12:09 am PDT #25924 of 30000

Wow Shir that’s so scary. Good luck.


beekaytee - Oct 07, 2023 8:26:46 am PDT #25925 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant

Apologies for skipping to the end of 500+ posts.

Shir, I rushed here specifically to find you. Thank you for checking in. Selfishly, your safety, and Nilly's, is my highest priority in the midst of this awfulness.

smonster, I'm free today for a chat | call | zoom. Happy to listen. I will be more on FB today, so it would be fastest to find me there. Do you have my number? If not, ping me and I'll send it. For today, or future reference.

All the absolute best vibes to every single one of you!


sj - Oct 07, 2023 9:42:53 am PDT #25926 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Smonster, I’m around all weekend.

Shir, I’m sorry. I’m glad you’re safe.


Shir - Oct 07, 2023 10:18:16 am PDT #25927 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Nilly and her family are also safe in their place.


brenda m - Oct 07, 2023 10:21:44 am PDT #25928 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Thank you so much Shir. I’m deeply sorry for everyone impacted, but so relieved to see you here and have word of Nilly