Giles: I jump out of the circle, jump back in, and, and, shake my gourd. Buffy: Hey, I think I know this ritual. The ancient shamans were next called upon to do the Hokey-Pokey and to turn themselves around.

'Dirty Girls'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Jessica - Sep 15, 2023 8:02:12 am PDT #25374 of 30000
If I want to become a cloud of bats, does each bat need a separate vaccination?

One side-effect I've noticed of Return To Office is that I'm finding it almost impossible to motivate myself to do any work on days when I'm home, other than attending meetings. I'm sure there are work things I could be doing right now in fact! But I'm not!

In bittersweet (mostly bitter) "I told you so" news, my old job at Comixology (which was permanently eliminated back in January) is now a new open role because apparently TPTB have realized that their original plan of "lay everyone off and then we'll get everything done in less time" was, in fact, incredibly stupid. I'm only sorry nobody reached out internally to offer it to me, because I would have LOVED the opportunity to respond with "are you fucking high."


Nora Deirdre - Sep 15, 2023 8:15:02 am PDT #25375 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Thanks for birthday wishes! It's the big 5-0. Which, for me, is both thought provoking and minute on the scale of things.

Thinking about Hec and Matilda daily. Also, why do teenage boys suck so hard? Emotional maturity of a blueberry scone is too much credit for that cretin.

Also, as someone who has been randomly Spovato-called by smonster, I highly recommend picking that call up if you get it.

I have bathroom remodeling envy, Jessica and SusanW! I have so much stuff I want to do in the house but then it's like... oh yeah, money.


Laura - Sep 15, 2023 8:22:02 am PDT #25376 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Thanks for birthday wishes! It's the big 5-0. Which, for me, is both thought provoking and minute on the scale of things.

When my memories brought up pictures from the 4-0 I was all OMG that was 10 years ago. I hope you are doing something very special for the milestone.


Nora Deirdre - Sep 15, 2023 8:33:18 am PDT #25377 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

You were there for my 40th and 45th!


DavidS - Sep 15, 2023 8:38:22 am PDT #25378 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Happy birthday, Nora! 50 is pretty exciting!


-t - Sep 15, 2023 9:00:20 am PDT #25379 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

One side-effect I've noticed of Return To Office is that I'm finding it almost impossible to motivate myself to do any work on days when I'm home, other than attending meetings. I'm sure there are work things I could be doing right now in fact! But I'm not!

Same! It really only hit when we went from 2 days in the office to 3, but whereas I used to be pretty gung ho to demonstrate that I was if anything more productive when WFH these days I am much more apt to think that even the things that I kinda might want to work on can wait until I'm back at my desk. Procrastinating starting on updating a spreadsheet right now!

Happy milestone, Nora! 50 is certainly a very round number and feels significant. It's a single roman numeral, that's a big deal! I V X L C all big deals!


lisah - Sep 15, 2023 9:05:00 am PDT #25380 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

Happy birthday, Nora!!!


Jesse - Sep 15, 2023 9:20:04 am PDT #25381 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Happy birthday, Nora!!

I tell you what, the aftermath of a death is a whopping long list of Onerous Tasks.

Oh yeah. So many Onerous Tasks. So, so many.

In bittersweet (mostly bitter) "I told you so" news, my old job at Comixology (which was permanently eliminated back in January) is now a new open role because apparently TPTB have realized that their original plan of "lay everyone off and then we'll get everything done in less time" was, in fact, incredibly stupid. I'm only sorry nobody reached out internally to offer it to me, because I would have LOVED the opportunity to respond with "are you fucking high."

Seriously, wtf.


Jesse - Sep 15, 2023 9:21:36 am PDT #25382 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

PS: I still have not had proper nachos but I did have chips with queso and guac for lunch.


smonster - Sep 15, 2023 9:39:41 am PDT #25383 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

I was about to ask if Matilda wanted her scary goth auntie to do some (mild) hexing. Because I will do that for her.

Excuse me while I cackle with glee and anticipation, quietly.

Nora! I can’t count so I didn’t realize it was 50. Wild. And I’m glad you enjoyed that call. Buffistas tend to be high on the call list.

Ass ‘em in the ear, Jess.

No nachos here but I’m getting a blood draw done for work and there is an excellent cheesesteak place next to where I parked my car. But I think I’m going to go eat a sandwich at home, instead. The funds have run out for my Emotional Disaster Area and I have to make more responsible choices now.