So there is something I can do, besides scream like a woman?

Wesley ,'Chosen'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


erikaj - Sep 14, 2023 11:14:34 am PDT #25350 of 30000
Always Anti-fascist!

Well, I can appreciate that there is no *great* time for a first breakup, but there is a time that could be *The WORST* and he found it. sorry. My first break-up was rather no-harm, no foul(although I wish I'd been more honest about noticing we wanted different things instead of picking a fight.) And it still hurts my pride that he messed with my head about being both devastated and SO IN LOVE when within six weeks, he got together with a less-complicated, homelier, version of me.As the great Lenny Bruce said about a far nastier topic "Somebody's lying," As far as I know, they're still together(He's on a short internet leash.) and letting his mom run their lives. I've thought about whether I did the right thing there way too much, but I definitely wish the education I stayed for would have turned out to be a better bet. I think about missing out on DC more than I think about his actual being, these days, though.


Glamcookie - Sep 14, 2023 11:28:17 am PDT #25351 of 30000
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

Oh Matilda. Heartbreak in the midst of heartbreak. Big love headed her way.


erikaj - Sep 14, 2023 11:31:38 am PDT #25352 of 30000
Always Anti-fascist!

But I wasn't interested in: a. standing in for his mother Pretending to be jealous cause he found Mariah Carey or somebody hot. And then he got a stipend to go out to DC and talk up(Ha!) his brand of voice synthesizers...he wanted me to come. But when you need attendant services there's no "just going!" anywhere, which, more than this love affair, may be the great sorrow of my life...he swore his company would help, but I didn't trust that. Plus, we hung out for twelve weekends and played house...was not great preparation. Also, blah, blah, college--which I could have dropped like a hot rock but neither I nor my parents could accept that yet--it was ironically, my dumbest argument.


lisah - Sep 14, 2023 12:43:46 pm PDT #25353 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

Ugh, Matilda’s ex, your timing is stupid.


Atropa - Sep 14, 2023 12:52:32 pm PDT #25354 of 30000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

First, oh boy, Matilda's ex. This is not the smartest move, gaining an army of powerful internet strangers-lurkers-aunts-and-uncles to wish bad things upon you. For your own good... Seriously, bad timing dude.

I was about to ask if Matilda wanted her scary goth auntie to do some (mild) hexing. Because I will do that for her.

And damn that's a lot, Hec. Much ongoing love to you, Matilda, and Emmett.

Hugs for everyone. EVERYONE.

Me, I'm in mild panic mode, as I leave for a work trip to the UK on Monday and have to have the annual reviews for my team done AND write a document before then.


Amy - Sep 14, 2023 12:54:18 pm PDT #25355 of 30000
Because books.

WRT to LTRs, though, even if you've had one, the next one could be (will probably be) totally different, simply because individual humans, yada yada.

That said, I could be totally fooling myself. I just can't picture being in another relationship with same dynamics as me and the ex's, but I might just be hoping.


sj - Sep 14, 2023 1:38:29 pm PDT #25356 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

One of my in-laws is wearing entirely too much cologne (which is triggering a migraine). So I’m hiding from them in my room. They’re only really here to see ltc anyway. I can’t even count the amount of times I’ve talked to them about strong scents triggering my asthma/migraines. Luckily they’re all leaving soon and TCG is taking ltc to karate.

And now I want nachos.


Dana - Sep 14, 2023 2:10:16 pm PDT #25357 of 30000
"I'm useless alone." // "We're all useless alone. It's a good thing you're not alone."

The QI account on Twitter tells me that the word of the day is opsomania, which is a longing for a particular food. So I hope all of you nacho people are happy. And have nachos.


Matt the Bruins fan - Sep 14, 2023 2:19:37 pm PDT #25358 of 30000
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

Matilda does have a good circle of friends that will quickly spread word of the kid's cruel timing to anyone he might want to ask out for the rest of high school, right? Not that I think that would turn him a pariah among all teenagers (it might enhance his cachet with the ones who romanticize bad boys), but it'd at least let the sensible ones know what they'd be signing up for.


erikaj - Sep 14, 2023 2:19:48 pm PDT #25359 of 30000
Always Anti-fascist!

I had some great ones from Filiberto's last week.