Tact is just not saying true stuff. I'll pass.

Cordelia ,'Dirty Girls'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Atropa - Aug 30, 2023 6:55:34 pm PDT #24790 of 30000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

Oh Matilda. Oh kiddo.

… I guess this is when I start crying.


DavidS - Aug 30, 2023 6:57:39 pm PDT #24791 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

....and now my MiL, Sunny, just left in a screaming rage.

The Oakland cousins are coming to pick her up.

Emotional dysregulation in all directions.


smonster - Aug 30, 2023 6:59:48 pm PDT #24792 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

I ululated while listening to Welcome to the Black Parade, driving across Lake Pontchartrain, at sunset.


P.M. Marc - Aug 30, 2023 7:10:05 pm PDT #24793 of 30000
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

I know nothing will make it easier on any of you, but I truly wish that weren't the case. I am also sorry that you have to be the one holding your shit together.


Calli - Aug 30, 2023 7:10:48 pm PDT #24794 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

My mom died at home. When they took her body, that’s when it became real. I totally get Matilda losing her shit then.

I hope you (David), and the family can surf the swells of big emotions as they arise.


sarameg - Aug 30, 2023 7:14:27 pm PDT #24795 of 30000

Oh, David. When all the “pending” lets go. When the focus of your grief has nowhere else to turn. Wishing everyone grace & a place to sit with it all.


-t - Aug 30, 2023 7:22:27 pm PDT #24796 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

That must be hard, Hec. I’m sorry.


Amy - Aug 30, 2023 7:22:33 pm PDT #24797 of 30000
Because books.

Oh, Matilda. That breaks my heart (more). So unfair that she has to weather this.

And as others have said, outrageously unfair that you have to be the calm center of the emotional shit storm.


Sue - Aug 30, 2023 7:24:23 pm PDT #24798 of 30000
hip deep in pie

I'm so sorry, David.


EpicTangent - Aug 30, 2023 7:29:54 pm PDT #24799 of 30000
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

Oh, David, I'm so sorry you're being forced into the role of the strong one. You deserve to lose your shit as much as anyone. May you find the space to express your grief when and how you need to.

I tried an ululation. My untutored attempt reminded me of the sound Abed made when he was pretending to be an alien to freak out Troy. So a little Community for our community, I guess.