Wesley: I stabbed you. I should apologize for that. But I'm honestly not sure how. I think it'll just be awkward. Gunn: Good call. Wesley: Okay.

'Time Bomb'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


P.M. Marc - Aug 24, 2023 3:08:20 pm PDT #24385 of 30000
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

David, emailing you what I can find while on this machine. First batch sent, second batch waiting for the interminable Zenfolio load to finish, OMG.


Laura - Aug 24, 2023 3:19:12 pm PDT #24386 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Looking through all the F2F pictures to find Jacqueline's pictures my heart was heavy. Too many losses in our Buffista family.


sj - Aug 24, 2023 3:30:36 pm PDT #24387 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I was just thinking that too. Too many people in my pictures are gone.


smonster - Aug 24, 2023 3:35:15 pm PDT #24388 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

I shrieked when I read this and then had to explain to Tim, whose reaction was "Awww, hooray!"

I really kind of hope the four of us get to hang out one day. Lord, he and Tim have a LOT in common, lol. I want him to meet lots of Buffistas.

how he probably had the supplies to go make me a ring at his house that moment

That's incredibly cool, BTW.

Right?! And he actually thought it through: “Let’s see, I’ve got wax and plaster, I think I’ve got a propane torch to melt the gold…” All while I was giggling and melting from competence kink.

Thanks, everyone. Y’all have been there for decades of relationship angst, so I definitely want to share the joy.


smonster - Aug 24, 2023 3:36:16 pm PDT #24389 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Man, a lot of my photos are on a hard drive I can’t access. And some are maybe still on Flickr? Does that still exist?


sj - Aug 24, 2023 3:40:37 pm PDT #24390 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Flickr still exists. I just regained access to mine.


askye - Aug 24, 2023 3:42:49 pm PDT #24391 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

Holy crap there is a miracle for my cousin's son J-- has relatives that were some how out of the loop of him being taken from his mother etc. But at one point (I'm not sure , apparently mom hasn't been keeping me in the loop about this) Mom was trying to text my cousin's ex girlfriend , Jennifer, and accidentally texted his cousin, Jennifer. And Jennifer the Cousin texted back and wanted details (or second cousin, honestly I'm not sure).

Anyway, the important part is that there are 2 cousins - one in CA and one in NC who have taken a huge interest in my cousin's son and the one in NC, C the Cousin, is a children's rights attorney, and she wants to have guardianship of J and have him live with her and her family (if he wants). She and her family have been going to FL to visit several times and they have a weekly online game of some kind.

AND! C the Cousin has been doing everything she can to pass all the background checks and do everything social services need and is doing her best to make sure that J can get cleared to visit them on Labor Day weekend so C and her family and J can go to DRAGON CON! I am so hopefully this will happen. The whole thing, that he will get to live with C and go to Dragon Con and have a family connection. The cousin and her family in CA also want him to visit and want to be a larger part of his life. My aunt was J's guardian but since she passed there is going to be a question of who and I'm hoping that will make it easier for C to step into that role.


askye - Aug 24, 2023 3:43:57 pm PDT #24392 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

I have photos, I think on an external drive, I've been trying to lay my hands on it. And I have physical pictures I need to find and I have to figure out where they are in storage. I think the physical pictures are from the DC F2F so there should be pictures of JZ there.


Sue - Aug 24, 2023 4:31:35 pm PDT #24393 of 30000
hip deep in pie

Did JZ have Theda Bara as a profile pic for a while? For some reason the news that a 30 second fragment of her Cleopatra was discover made me think of Jacqueline. [link]


brenda m - Aug 24, 2023 4:35:32 pm PDT #24394 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

askye, that is wondrous news!

I lost most of my old picture files in a laptop disaster some years ago, so I am so glad to have the opportunity to see other peoples archives.

Nice find Sue!