Zoe: Nobody's saying that, sir. Wash: Yeah, we're pretty much just giving each other significant glances and laughing incessantly.

'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


JZ - Jul 17, 2023 6:16:28 pm PDT #23160 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

How frightening! I'm glad your MIL is all right and it was something easily addressed.

I have a book-related sad--picked up a copy of Margaret Atwood's The Robber Bride at the WeHo Friends of the Library bookstore, and it's already totally engrossing but I'm pretty sure there's no way I'm going to be able to read it. The print is tiny and the pages are yellowing and I'm just... nope. May be time for big print and e-readers.


DavidS - Jul 17, 2023 6:39:14 pm PDT #23161 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Hard to believe an infection and dehydration could do that, but maybe?

JZ has passed out from dehydration within the last six months. Also her mom did it once, and her mom's friend at a dinner we were at.

It happens in a hurry.


Cass - Jul 17, 2023 8:27:37 pm PDT #23162 of 30000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Hard to believe an infection and dehydration could do that, but maybe?
It happens in a hurry.

Dehydration and electrolyte loss can happen quickly, I agree.

The print is tiny and the pages are yellowing and I'm just... nope. May be time for big print and e-readers.

I personally settled on e-readers. I haven't looked back.


meara - Jul 17, 2023 10:43:36 pm PDT #23163 of 30000

That is one more reason e-readers are awesome. Alternately you could try magnifying glasses of some kind?

Laura that is very scary! My grandmother did something like that one year at thanksgiving dinner, but by the time the EMTs showed up she was fine. Hope she stays fine!

I am packed! Well, my suitcase is packed. My “personal item” is a pile of stuff in a corner but I think it contains all the stuff, so…. I re-bleached and re-dyed my hair today and it turned out a lot more hot pink than planned (usually I go for sort of an orchid color? A slightly blue pink?). Trying to decide if I just wash it in the morning and figure it’ll fade, or if I try to put a tiny bit of purple dye on it (diluted with a lot of conditioner). I don’t leave until 3pm but have meetings all day until then, for work. Including one at like 130pm that is actually very important. Ugh.


DebetEsse - Jul 18, 2023 1:08:15 am PDT #23164 of 30000
Woe to the fucking wicked.

I'd vote for "call it a Barbie tie-in and leave it be" but my baseline level of exhaustion at this point is high, and the list of things I can't be assed to do is long.


Laura - Jul 18, 2023 3:26:31 am PDT #23165 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

I personally settled on e-readers. I haven't looked back.

Same. I resisted, but it makes reading in bed so easy.

It happens in a hurry.

Good to have the reassurance, because dehydration was the best option for causation.

Have a blast, meara. Hot pink hair sounds good to me. I think we need pictures.

I am a responsible person! Woot! At the beginning of the month I was with one sister as she had her colonoscopy and surgery. And today I am hanging in the waiting room as my other sister has her colonoscopy. On the paperwork for both I am the responsible person! The sister I am with today has a bowel prolapse which will be dealt with surgically on the 1st, unless we end up in the ER sooner. This is one of a battery of tests we need before the surgery.

Bodies people, not so well designed in many ways.


askye - Jul 18, 2023 6:58:12 am PDT #23166 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

Dehydration can happen really fast especially with how hot amd humid it has been and in combination with an infection. I know about 15 years ago my Aunt J got really dehydrated (not infection related) and passed out and had to go to the ER.

I'm trying to be a lot better about drinking water because I know I need but I also know that as people get older they are less likely to drink water and other fluids and I don't want that.

It's not just drinking water, eating water rich foods also helps keep you hydrated so another reason to eat your fruits and vegetables.

JZ there are full page size magnifiers and some are lighted if you want to try that before going eReader. In the donations at Recraft there was a magnifier for single lines...I guess for reading patterns . I don't know if that would be better.

I've taken to opening my camera app and zooming in to read things. That wouldn't work for reading a book but it's worked when I've been trying to read the side of a bottle.

I am really glad I'm here for Mom. The hospital can't find the Power of Attorney or the DNR for my aunt. The nurse or case manager is going to get the doctor to do a DNR today. They need the POA sent and mom was going to fax it. The nurse said she could email it but mom said she didn't know how. So I took care of getting it scanned and made sure mom got it emailed.

Mom also had to call the social worker about my cousin's son...there is a bunch of stuff going on there. And then the lawyer because it still isn't clear who is going to have guardianship of him when Aunt W passes.


askye - Jul 18, 2023 7:25:56 am PDT #23167 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

The settlement check had cleared and I have paid off my credit cards!


Laura - Jul 18, 2023 7:51:58 am PDT #23168 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Yay, askye! Having the credit cards paid off is a big relief.


JenP - Jul 18, 2023 7:57:12 am PDT #23169 of 30000

Yikes, and, yes, I can confirm that dehydration and electrolyte depletion can happen fast and are awful. Because of my short gut, 3 liters of oral rehydration solution (which, absorbs better for those of us thus afflicted) and a double dose of magnesium supplementation are a daily ritual... or else.

Man, when I first got released after the final surgery, I had to get my blood checked three times a week and then go to the ER about every two weeks for an IV magnesium infusion. For, like, four months. Jesus, it was a lot. I am so freaking lucky lo' these three years past.