Hey! What a surprise! Hostile 17! Can I get you a drink, Hostile 17?

Xander ,'Dirty Girls'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


askye - Jul 18, 2023 7:25:56 am PDT #23167 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

The settlement check had cleared and I have paid off my credit cards!


Laura - Jul 18, 2023 7:51:58 am PDT #23168 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Yay, askye! Having the credit cards paid off is a big relief.


JenP - Jul 18, 2023 7:57:12 am PDT #23169 of 30000

Yikes, and, yes, I can confirm that dehydration and electrolyte depletion can happen fast and are awful. Because of my short gut, 3 liters of oral rehydration solution (which, absorbs better for those of us thus afflicted) and a double dose of magnesium supplementation are a daily ritual... or else.

Man, when I first got released after the final surgery, I had to get my blood checked three times a week and then go to the ER about every two weeks for an IV magnesium infusion. For, like, four months. Jesus, it was a lot. I am so freaking lucky lo' these three years past.


meara - Jul 18, 2023 8:29:47 am PDT #23170 of 30000

Three times a week is a lot!

Yay payment askye!

vote for "call it a Barbie tie-in and leave it be" but my baseline level of exhaustion at this point is high, and the list of things I can't be assed to do is long.

Hahah yeah I tried washing it this morning but although a lot of dye seemed to come out in the wash it is just as hot pink as before. But I have a ton of work and work meetings between now and when I leave so not sure anything else is really an option right now


Consuela - Jul 18, 2023 9:27:05 am PDT #23171 of 30000
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

askye, you have a lot going on! I'm sorry for your aunt and all the hassle for your mother but I'm happy you got the check!

In general advice, anyone getting older should have an advanced directive signed, scanned, and provided in electronic format to their family. Huh, I should do that! If you have senior relatives you may need to help, do talk to them about this and get copies that you can keep in a reliable place (I kept my dad's paperwork on my phone).

Woke up with a headache and a little nauseated, so I'm spending the morning in bed. First legit sick day in quite some time. Dog isn't too pleased, though.


JZ - Jul 18, 2023 10:39:40 am PDT #23172 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Yay for the paying off!

Any e reader recs? Kindle? Fire? Something else? I'm tired of struggling with this.


Gudanov - Jul 18, 2023 10:57:49 am PDT #23173 of 30000
Coding and Sleeping

Congrats, Gud! How is it that you're about to have both kids married when it doesn't seem that long ago that you were building a rocket ship in the backyard?

I'm not sure how it happened.

Any e reader recs? Kindle? Fire? Something else? I'm tired of struggling with this.

I really like the Kindle paperwhite.


NoiseDesign - Jul 18, 2023 11:04:56 am PDT #23174 of 30000
Our wings are not tired

I'm a fan of the Kindle.


meara - Jul 18, 2023 11:10:14 am PDT #23175 of 30000

I like my kindle but honestly mostly read on the kindle app on my iPad these days—it’s a bigger screen and easier to navigate/download/etc. The paper white kindle is nice for being smaller and lighter but mostly I only use if I want to carry something tiny and/or it’ll be in bright sunlight where the iPad isn’t as good. (Also it’s waterproof!)


Dana - Jul 18, 2023 11:16:27 am PDT #23176 of 30000
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

I also have a Kindle, though I don't think it's a Paperwhite. What I like about reading on it rather than a phone or iPad is the ability to take blue light out of the equation. I try to limit that because of the migraines, and I find my eyes get tired less quickly with my Kindle.