Well, then, this is a day I'll feel good to be me.

Mal ,'Trash'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


amyparker - Jul 17, 2023 10:26:55 am PDT #23145 of 30000
You've got friends to have good times with. When you need to share the trauma of a badly-written book with someone, that's when you go to family.

And as it's a totally different subject -

I'm moving into a whole-arsed HOUSE in about three weeks. Laura has my new mailing address and doubtless will update when and as she has time; all other contact information remains the same.


JZ - Jul 17, 2023 11:46:01 am PDT #23146 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

I'm so sorry, Teppy. What terrible news.

I'm about to jump out of here and into another clinical trial; this one is a trial of a virtual reality device to deal with fear and depression surrounding cancer diagnoses. I've managed to get it up and running once. I was a swirling purple cloud in a clear night sky. It was hippy-dippy but also pretty interesting. At 12 noon the whole trial group (6 people, I think) try it together for the first time. I have no idea what to expect.


Steph L. - Jul 17, 2023 11:51:41 am PDT #23147 of 30000
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

JZ, that sounds pretty cool. I hope it's helpful to you and the rest of the group, in addition to being interesting.


Steph L. - Jul 17, 2023 11:53:29 am PDT #23148 of 30000
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Somehow I posted a blank post??? I couldn't let it just sit there and be blank, so this is an edit.


dcp - Jul 17, 2023 12:31:30 pm PDT #23149 of 30000
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

trial of a virtual reality device to deal with fear and depression surrounding cancer diagnoses. I've managed to get it up and running once. I was a swirling purple cloud in a clear night sky. It was hippy-dippy but also pretty interesting.

Huh. That is interesting. Is there a sound component as well?

I hope you get it to work for you.


Dana - Jul 17, 2023 12:32:07 pm PDT #23150 of 30000
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

The heat index here is 110, and I would like to know who to complain to. (Climate change and humans, I know.)


DavidS - Jul 17, 2023 12:35:46 pm PDT #23151 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Jacqueline further reported that she is a vaporous purple cloud with a pulsing red heart in the VR environment. And that you can touch your heart to the other clouds as a sign of support.

I'm basically imagining Lumpy Space Princess with boundary issues.


Toddson - Jul 17, 2023 2:07:16 pm PDT #23152 of 30000
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

for your amusement, Dungeons and Drag Queens


JZ - Jul 17, 2023 3:25:20 pm PDT #23153 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

My heart is white and not pulsing, and at least so far we're not caressing each other's orbs for comfort. The whole thing is heavily laced with woo, but I'll stick it out because the oncologist was so enthusiastic about it. If I do a total turnaround and start babbling about it all the time, please rescue me because in that case it's clearly a cult.


Sophia Brooks - Jul 17, 2023 4:12:15 pm PDT #23154 of 30000
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

Unlike javachik, I did not actually catch up- I did a read of the past few weeks a few weeks ago and have been lurking. I tend to read and not post more now that I am doing this on a mobile device, and not at work, on my computer. I really miss the early days where Buffistas was something I could keep up with to look busy at work. Those days are long gone, I am afraid. I am completely and utterly overwhelmed, which was semi manageable on salary and not at all manageable keeping to 40ish hours. I lead a training today which went off the rails.

Teppy- I am so sorry for your SILs family.

Sheryl- That sounds so hard

JZ- I am glad you have another trial but this:

t so far we're not caressing each other's orbs for comfort.

Reminded me of college acting class where we learned to feel each other’s aura’s and then had to “fluff” them. So awkward, but also I could kind of feel it and feel the fluffing. It was sort of the same sensation as you feel when the Ouija Board planchette starts moving. So weird.