None of it means a damn thing.

Mal ,'Objects In Space'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


askye - May 02, 2023 9:06:21 am PDT #22012 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

I don't want to be a nudge with the nurses and the coordinator and the doctor

You absolutely have to be an advocate and making sure that JZ's health is the priority (and yours) and that means making noise and double checking things. There are ways to do this without being rude or overbearing and I know you'll figure it out.

Laura, I'm so glad that my section of the beach seems to have been spared the seaweed monstrosity but fleeing up North for the summer sounds like a good plan.

I messed up. I came home and had a check from worker's comp and deposited it and picked the free wait 3 days before you get it option. And then I had a notification about money deposit and I went and checked and since the banking app has changed for some reason I thought the mobile deposit was the direct deposit and promptly forgot about thigns until I checked my account today.

So now I've had to email the lawyer and say --oops I made a mistake and I haven't gotten any thing direct deposit from worker's comp even though this should have all been cleared up when I was in Florida. It doesn't seem that direct deposit means I get my money any faster. I also haven't heard anything about the dr's note for more hours. It's been about a year and a half of this fuckery.


JZ - May 02, 2023 10:21:09 am PDT #22013 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

And I do like slinging gin for the greater good.

I just needed to see that sentence again; it's so delightful!

Last night an all-new experience: woke up shivering and soaking wet, having just suffered a full-body sweat that soaked through my PJs and the comforter and the mattress. No other bodily fluids, no flop-sweat stink, just water shooting out of every pore. I've had occasional night sweats before, but never this bad.

Mid-morning now, airing everything out now and wearing a soft long-sleeved top snagged from Nordstrom Rack yesterday, getting ready for another trip to Nordstrom Rack for new PJs and maybe sweatpants. The shirt I'm wearing isn't my style at all, but it is exactly the kind of thing my oldest friend would wear and I find that comforting, like she's here with me now (instead of in London where she actually is now, how dare she).

Almost done with Men At Arms and sad to have it nearly over; will next read a Roz Chast graphic memoir and an Edward Eager. What are other folks reading? Including fic?


Emily - May 02, 2023 10:26:13 am PDT #22014 of 30000
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

While in SF I decided maaaaaybe it was time to check out this Lois McMaster Bujold person and that has been keeping me in reading material for some time to come (although my library is missing a big chunk from the Vorkosigan books so I switched to the Five Gods stuff). I also devoured Naomi Novik's Scholomance series.

(This is a response to JZ, not random non sequiturs like in another ten months I'll show up and tell you all my favorite bus.)

Edit: Favorite bugs. My favorite bus is the 22.


Tom Scola - May 02, 2023 10:32:22 am PDT #22015 of 30000
Mr. Scola’s wardrobe by Botany 500

I want to read this book: A Typical Day for a Protagonist in a Young Adult Fantasy Book


JZ - May 02, 2023 10:39:22 am PDT #22016 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

The 22 is pretty awesome. There aren't that many buses crossing the city north to south and doing a decent job, but the 22 gets it done.

I definitely will have a look at Bujold, and I think David may have some Novik floating around the house (the house! not shorthand for the apartment, but the actual house!).


Emily - May 02, 2023 10:45:01 am PDT #22017 of 30000
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

I actually left behind the Bujold (Barrayar) because I had finished it before I left. Hec may have done something with it (I had a vague idea that it could go back to Borderlands as though it never left), but if not it may still be sitting in the apartment! It's sort of the second book (or third, but...eh), but I had no trouble with it as my entry point.


dcp - May 02, 2023 10:46:19 am PDT #22018 of 30000
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

having just suffered a full-body sweat

No fun.

The most important thing to do after that is re-hydrate.


JZ - May 02, 2023 10:46:52 am PDT #22019 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Emily! I forgot to say before because I am a bad host, but thank you so much for the watercolors! The teeny tiny one is already framed downstairs.


-t - May 02, 2023 11:03:14 am PDT #22020 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Glad to know favorite bugs and buses!

Currently reading: Promises Stronger Than Darkness (e-book) and the first Lockwood & Co (audio). And the new Magazine of Fantasy and Science Fiction came today so I'll need to be starting that

I would like to note that Target had some cute and soft PJs that I was strong-willed enough to not buy yesterday


P.M. Marc - May 02, 2023 11:07:54 am PDT #22021 of 30000
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

I'm currently reading my UK hard copy of The Screaming Staircase (first Lockwood & Co. book) while down with a cold. If my attention span degrades further, might just switch to the nine million L&Co. AO3 tabs I have open.

Colds. Dislike.