You got fired, and you still hang around here like a big loser. Why can't he?

Cordelia ,'Chosen'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Pix - Apr 11, 2023 6:06:59 pm PDT #21656 of 30000
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

It was an emotional whirl of the worst possible kind and I’m so sorry you’re going through something similar. Grief is bad enough without chaos.

Thanks so much, Trudy, and everyone else. It's definitely been an emotional whirlwind. And this may sound dumb, but I hate that I have to go out to stock up on all the sympathy cards I need to cover both sides of the family. And my dad was super stoic and "we don't talk about it" when I tried to talk to him earlier (no surprise to anyone), which makes me worry more. At least when my mom mourns, we can talk about it and I know when she's getting depressed. Dad is just a completely closed book.

Aunt Pat sounds like one of those people who do the heavy lifting to make a family whole.

Yes, she was. Well said. Thank you.

ETA: Did I mention I got a jury summons today? Because that also happened.


brenda m - Apr 11, 2023 7:27:44 pm PDT #21657 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I’m so sorry Pix.


Laga - Apr 12, 2023 10:15:15 am PDT #21658 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

I think I got called off more often than not when I got a Jury summons in SoCal. Here's hoping you're in the "released" group, Pix


Laura - Apr 12, 2023 2:58:38 pm PDT #21659 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

It is a windy rainy mess here. It has been like this for several days, with no end in sight. They apparently have suspended flights at Fort Lauderdale's airport. Roads around the airport are flooded and people are stuck there. I've been looking for waterspouts, but haven't seen any yet. It is so hazy over the ocean I'm not sure I would see them. I haven't seen any today, but the last couple days the kite surfers were having fun. Crazy lot they are.


Sheryl - Apr 12, 2023 5:05:35 pm PDT #21660 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

I'm so sorry, Pix.


Laura - Apr 12, 2023 5:28:58 pm PDT #21661 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Sheesh, no fewer than a dozen times my phone, tv, and watch have yelled out flash flood warnings, lightning warnings, and so forth. We made it to the park and back with the dog, who was not pleased about going out in the rain. On the way home the warnings had escalated to only essential traffic. It's a mess.


Laura - Apr 13, 2023 5:44:04 am PDT #21662 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Morning news reports that Ft. Lauderdale airport got 25.95" of rain in the last 48 hours. They think they might open again around noon but they have to tow away all the abandoned cars on the flooded streets first so people can get in and out. The park next to where I live measured a bit over 20". I did go out this morning and A1A was passable, but still oddly placed abandoned cars here and there. Couldn't get into the dog park though so Skinner and I walked around the mall parking lot. Schools are closed and it looks like a nice day to just stay home. Much less windy today.

Thus ends your morning weather update.


meara - Apr 13, 2023 7:09:14 am PDT #21663 of 30000

Holy crap that is a lot of rain!!


-t - Apr 13, 2023 8:15:46 am PDT #21664 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Wow, Laura!

I learned this morning that while my car fob will not unlock or lock my doors or allow the car to start unless it is physically in the little slot, it *will* set off the alarm if I drop it on the porch. It will *not* turn *off* the alarm - to do that I have to unlock the door with a key, put the fob in its slot and turn the engine on. Really glad that worked, at least. Also glad my neighbors did not drive me off with pitchforks and allowed me to just slink away in shame.


Matt the Bruins fan - Apr 13, 2023 8:17:38 am PDT #21665 of 30000
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

Ironic that you were hunting for houseboats not that long ago, Laura. Maybe check into gondolas for getting around the streets, just in case?

Happy to report my new permanent crown is in and feels like a tooth rather than a LEGO® jammed into my jaw the way the temporary one did.