Fred: It's the pictures in my mind that are getting me. It's like being stuck in a really bad movie with those Clockwork Orange clampy things on my eyeballs. Wesley: Why imagine? Reality's disturbing enough.

'Shells'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Steph L. - Apr 07, 2023 7:28:12 am PDT #21591 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

Tim had a CT scan of his back and a DEXA scan for bone density earlier this week, and today was a follow-up appointment with the back surgeon. His bone density kind of sucks, so the surgeon wants to wait 2-3 months before surgery so Tim can take Evista or one of the other drugs that helps improve bone density. In the meantime, he's also going to get an epidural steroid injection to try to help with some of the increased pain he's having.

I'm both sad and glad the surgery is pushed back by 2-3 months: sad because he really, really needs to the surgery to happen, and glad because it gives me a little bit longer for the long Covid fatigue to (hopefully) go away completely. I'll be a better caregiver if I'm not exhausted all the time. And it gives us a little more time to prepare for everything that he'll need when he's recovering at home. He's super excited to buy a recliner. I called him an old man.


dcp - Apr 07, 2023 8:07:39 am PDT #21592 of 30000
Useta-could.

one of the other drugs that helps improve bone density

Xgeva has worked well for me.


DavidS - Apr 07, 2023 9:05:29 am PDT #21593 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

All the Mom-ma headed your way, Matt.

I hope she's okay.


DavidS - Apr 07, 2023 9:09:56 am PDT #21594 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I'm sorry about the delay, Tep, but it does sound like bone density and recliners are essential in this process.


Steph L. - Apr 07, 2023 10:07:17 am PDT #21595 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

it does sound like bone density and recliners are essential in this process.

The surgery could go ahead without treating the bone density, but opting to treat it will definitely increase his already good chance of a successful outcome. Plus, the bone density would have to be addressed at some point anyway, so might as well do it now.

The recliner will just make him a happy old man.


NoiseDesign - Apr 07, 2023 11:45:21 am PDT #21596 of 30000
Our wings are not tired

Matt, thinking of you and your mom. Those events are scary.


lisah - Apr 07, 2023 12:25:16 pm PDT #21597 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

Keeping your mom in my thoughts, Matt


erikaj - Apr 07, 2023 1:16:38 pm PDT #21598 of 30000
I'm a fucking amazing catch!--Fiona Gallagher, Shameless(US)

Yeah, definitely...good thoughts for Matt's mom.


Calli - Apr 07, 2023 1:50:58 pm PDT #21599 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Health~ma for your mom, Matt.


JenP - Apr 07, 2023 2:28:09 pm PDT #21600 of 30000

Yes, all good health~ma for your mom, Matt. that's a scary happening, but I'm so glad she was where she was when it happened. Calm and comfort ~ma to you, too.