See, in my fantasy, when I'm kissing you... you're kissing me. It's okay. I can wait.

Oz ,'First Date'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


tommyrot - Apr 06, 2023 10:52:17 am PDT #21576 of 30000
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

My work experience was pretty bad for awhile. I had two jobs that were contract to hire that I never got hired permanently. I was unemployed with no unemployment insurance for 8 months.

I started my current job Nov. of 2021 under a contract to hire. I was made permanent a year ago. So I have PTO and matching retirement contributions again for the first time since 2017. Plus I purchased a Comfy Car for road trips.


NoiseDesign - Apr 06, 2023 10:55:42 am PDT #21577 of 30000
Our wings are not tired

tommyrot, good to see you here. I've also been working on getting some depression under control. You have my empathy.


DavidS - Apr 06, 2023 11:07:08 am PDT #21578 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

So I have PTO and matching retirement contributions again for the first time since 2017.

Excellent!

Plus I purchased a Comfy Car for road trips.

Road trip! Where you going? Have you seen Poker Face? You could do that tour.


Calli - Apr 06, 2023 11:08:53 am PDT #21579 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I have PTO and matching retirement contributions again for the first time since 2017. Plus I purchased a Comfy Car for road trips.

Yay—both are good things!


JenP - Apr 06, 2023 11:16:12 am PDT #21580 of 30000

Indeed, both good things, tommyrot!

ND, ~ma to you in dealing with that, too.


tommyrot - Apr 06, 2023 12:17:46 pm PDT #21581 of 30000
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

Oh, and I figured out I’m agender. That explains so much!


shrift - Apr 06, 2023 12:41:45 pm PDT #21582 of 30000
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

I remember you talking about that a while back! There's a lot of "seems fake, but okay" stuff that suddenly becomes clear when you figure out something like that.


tommyrot - Apr 06, 2023 12:49:50 pm PDT #21583 of 30000
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

Finding the label and knowing there are many like me was what I really needed.


Dana - Apr 06, 2023 12:51:49 pm PDT #21584 of 30000
"I'm useless alone." // "We're all useless alone. It's a good thing you're not alone."

That's great, tommy.


Sheryl - Apr 06, 2023 1:18:57 pm PDT #21585 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

I'm glad things are going well, Tommy.

Did the seder at Gary's mom's house. Went fine.

My toenails are now sparkly and purple. (Not that any one other than me and Gary will see them-I don't wear sandals much- but they make me happy)