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Jesse - Mar 02, 2023 9:31:44 am PST #20961 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I woke up with chills and coughing and decided to work from home and now I am having trouble getting myself to actually work.

That sounds like maybe a sick day is in order!!


Laura - Mar 02, 2023 9:51:35 am PST #20962 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Do you think everyone (barring allergies) likes chocolate and peanut butter?

I do know people who are not crazy about chocolate, like my sister, but they are simply wrongheaded and shouldn't make the rest of the assemblage suffer.


Jesse - Mar 02, 2023 9:52:37 am PST #20963 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Oh no, I forgot about those people! I thought it was the peanut butter that was going to be controversh.


-t - Mar 02, 2023 9:55:44 am PST #20964 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Is there anything that everyone likes? I doubt it. Chocolate peanut butter is a classic combination.

I have a meeting I don't want to miss, but I may only work a half day. We'll see how it goes.


meara - Mar 02, 2023 10:17:05 am PST #20965 of 30000

I have one friend who hated peanuts and peanut butter growing up, but a few years ago tried some fancy peanuts in shell and decided she only liked those. But then was convinced to branch out a bit…and now she likes it, in her 30s! My bestie (who some of y’all have met) isn’t really into chocolate—she will eat it but will usually choose something else first. She’s crazy but I love her despite that.


Jesse - Mar 02, 2023 10:19:49 am PST #20966 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Now I'm spiraling trying to decide if I should do something else! But someone is lactose-intolerant and there is a good vegan chocolate cake receipe.


DebetEsse - Mar 02, 2023 10:58:26 am PST #20967 of 30000
Woe to the fucking wicked.

I think chocolate and PB or chocolate and fruit would either be a solid choice. I only like PB Choc in some contexts, but I'm weird


-t - Mar 02, 2023 11:09:49 am PST #20968 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Could you check with someone, perhaps? Maybe the lactose intolerant person, because if they don't like chocolate then that would be disappointing (my mom's friend once made a vegan cake especially so she (mom) could have it but used almond milk and mom's allergic so that was a bummer for everyone)


Jesse - Mar 02, 2023 11:20:03 am PST #20969 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Yeah, good one -- I can do the cake and have ice cream with it, but not if the one person doesn't like chocolate!

Thank you all for helping me think this through!


Jessica - Mar 02, 2023 11:46:05 am PST #20970 of 30000
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

I have trouble wrapping my head around a preference against chocolate and peanut butter (such an obviously delicious flavor combination!) but I know there are people out there who are likewise confused as to why anyone would voluntarily eat a Reese's cup, so...yeah, I don't think there is any universal "safe" flavor option.