Hey! What a surprise! Hostile 17! Can I get you a drink, Hostile 17?

Xander ,'Dirty Girls'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Susan W. - Jan 30, 2023 7:33:12 pm PST #20353 of 30000
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

{{{Cass}}}

~ma for a mild case and a quick recovery.

My surgical recovery is coming along normally, i.e. more slowly than I'd like. I go back to work next week, but since I'm 100% WFH hopefully that won't be too bad. They did discover from the pathology report on the tissue that was removed that I have some precancerous markers, which I'm trying not to freak out about too much. At this point this will probably just mean extra screenings beyond an annual mammogram, though the surgeon did mention tamoxifen therapy as a potential option. I'm scheduled to meet with someone at the breast clinic for counseling on the risks and my options for managing them the same day I go in for my next post-op appointment in about a month.


DavidS - Jan 30, 2023 8:55:39 pm PST #20354 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

They did discover from the pathology report on the tissue that was removed that I have some precancerous markers, which I'm trying not to freak out about too much.

Let me just say that "precancerous" is where you want to catch these things.

If that's where you are, you're going to be fine.

Wishing you quick healing and no further complications.


Susan W. - Jan 30, 2023 9:22:01 pm PST #20355 of 30000
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

Let me just say that "precancerous" is where you want to catch these things.

If that's where you are, you're going to be fine.

Thanks, David--in my head, I know that, at least with the exception of that part of my head that drives my anxiety. I'm getting better at keeping the anxiety from seizing the wheel, but it does still try sometimes.


Cass - Jan 30, 2023 10:11:24 pm PST #20356 of 30000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Much healing~ma, Susan. And if there is anything to be found, as David said, precancerous is the best time to find it.

I do expect this Covid having and recovery will be much easier.

I just really, really was starting to feel like I'd started kicking long Covid out the door, so the possibility reality of being Covid+ is stressful because what if the long Covid comes back? Without much sciencing to read up on, I don't know what to expect long-term.

Thank you all for the good wishes.


dcp - Jan 31, 2023 4:52:01 am PST #20357 of 30000
"I yam what I yam and that's all what I yam," -- Popeye

I'm getting better at keeping the anxiety from seizing the wheel

This is good.


askye - Jan 31, 2023 6:05:06 am PST #20358 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

Susan, I know finding out there are pre cancerous markers is scary but you now have really important health information that you didn't have before and you can be proactive about this and take care of things while it's still precancerous.

So far the aspirin seems to be working on the flushing side effects.


Calli - Jan 31, 2023 1:04:53 pm PST #20359 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Well, the good-job-news~ma worked like a charm, y'all. I'm moving to a new position under my favorite manager, for more money, and with the chance to learn a bunch of cool things. And I didn't have to go through the interview process for it—my future manage just went to HR and said, "We need her on our team. Please make it happen." Yay!


Steph L. - Jan 31, 2023 1:08:17 pm PST #20360 of 30000
Apparently if you're enough of a power nerd, there is nothing that cannot be flowcharted.

Great news, Calli!!!


lisah - Jan 31, 2023 1:13:34 pm PST #20361 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

That’s awesome, Calli!!!


-t - Jan 31, 2023 1:13:45 pm PST #20362 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Congrats, Calli! That's so good to hear!