Simon: You're out of your mind. Early: That's between me and my mind.

'Objects In Space'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


askye - Jan 25, 2023 5:10:39 pm PST #20238 of 29918
Thrive to spite them

I played around with Ancestry website and there is one ancestor where the trial just stops. I think it's my paternal grandfather's grandfather . But on the only records that can be found his first and last name are the same. The documents that can be found are with the double name and there aren't many of them. Every family tree I could find with this man on it just stops there.

And my grandfather never really knew his father because my great grandmother divorced him (or he divorced her but there was a divorce) and never spoke about him again. To the point where my grandfather didn't know how to spell his own last name and didn't ask when he started school so he just guessed the spelling. ( My great grandmother had either remarried at this point and been widowed or was remarried and her husband was alive or she had gone back to using her maiden name I'm not sure which one was the case that no mail came to them with our last name on it).

And then there is the ancestor whoo may have married his aunt, his mother (half?) sister

This is on mom's side. What I could find is this guy who is married to a woman who has the same parents as his mother. Excpet when I went digging around Ancestry there were some family trees that showed this. Some that showed his wife's name with no parents listed and didn't have a sibling listed for his mother with his wife's name . Some had no sisterslisted for his wife but showed his mother having the youngest childi with the same name and either the same or almost the same birth year. The math added up for the possible aunt-wife to be his mothers sister. They were 20 years apart in age and the entries that listed an age for the dude and his wife showed she was older than him (even when they didn't show a relationship between his wife and his mother ).

So that makes me wonder if it's just some weird mix up that someone did on Ancestry that got added around or what was going on but I don't think I'll ever know. I do know that people get records wrong. I had seen a couple people who had Grandma E's name, birth date, parents etc saying she died in the 90s and had a different picture and maybe a different husband. I did contact 2 people about it and one had gotten the info from the other, she thanked me and corrected it. The other person never contacted me.


Sophia Brooks - Jan 25, 2023 5:31:39 pm PST #20239 of 29918
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

I did a ton of genealogy research before my father’s actual family found me. And now it is fraught and causes me stress, which is sad, because I loved doing it. My poor sister, because she was just so torn up that her dad had an illegitimate child. But on my mom’s side, it was so much fun to figure out if my great grandma was Nellie, Helen or Cornelia Bourbeau, all which could have been nicknamed Nellie. To be honest, it was the 23 and Me profile which led to the identification, not the Ancestry stuff, but it all got poisoned for me.


Consuela - Jan 25, 2023 6:05:56 pm PST #20240 of 29918
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

Sorry I didn't respond to people: here is the link to my brother's Op-Ed.


Consuela - Jan 25, 2023 6:08:24 pm PST #20241 of 29918
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

Anyway, I came down with a cold last Friday, thought I was over it by Monday, and today I lost my voice during the supervisor's meeting. So now I am whispering to the dogs and considering ordering pho to be delivered.


Matt the Bruins fan - Jan 25, 2023 6:14:01 pm PST #20242 of 29918
"You should never say bad things about the dead, only good… Joan Crawford is dead. Good.” —Bette Davis

Today was a getting-stuff-done day for me, including a grocery pickup, cat chow prescription refill, visit to the cable company to find out why I got four bills in one month, and an appointment with my psychiatrist. The latter went well, but I found out the practice has just been sitting on post-insurance bills rather than invoicing me, to the tune of an $800 balance. Not fun to discover just after a move where everyone has been holding their hand out, though the receptionist seemed fine with me waiting a bit to pay it off. On the plus side, I found out I've lost another 6 lbs. since mid-December. May this trend continue through the first half of the year!


sj - Jan 26, 2023 4:35:34 am PST #20243 of 29918
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Is anyone planning on watching SMG’s new show tonight?


Dana - Jan 26, 2023 6:25:21 am PST #20244 of 29918
"I'm useless alone." // "We're all useless alone. It's a good thing you're not alone."

Love to call a medical equipment company because they've billed me for something that should be covered, and for them to tell me that I don't owe anything, and the bill was just "an estimate." An estimate with a big DUE DATE and a payment coupon. I wonder how many people have just paid the "estimate". I'm sure the company is very prompt with refunds.


sj - Jan 26, 2023 6:27:13 am PST #20245 of 29918
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Ugh, Dana. I hate medical equipment companies, who I have to deal with on a regular basis because they won't just ship out my continuing care order every month until they talk to me and are assured my permanent disability is still permanent.


Consuela - Jan 26, 2023 7:06:52 am PST #20246 of 29918
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

morning, folks. This cold is being annoyingly persistent: I wish I didn't have any meetings today because I'm pretty sure I won't be able to say anything. At least I get to be at home.

And yes, I'm taking a 3rd covid test. Although the test has expired: so... does that mean you get more false positives, or false negatives?


Tom Scola - Jan 26, 2023 7:17:41 am PST #20247 of 29918
Mr. Scola’s wardrobe by Botany 500

I've never gotten a positive at-home test, even when I've gotten positive PCR tests.