Oh my god. What can it be? We're all doomed! Who's flying this thing!? Oh right, that would be me. Back to work.

Wash ,'Bushwhacked'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Steph L. - Jan 23, 2023 6:06:17 pm PST #20147 of 30000
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

I am the oldest of my generation on that side.

Boss mare!


Calli - Jan 23, 2023 6:19:15 pm PST #20148 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Sorry about the stress, shrift. But I’m glad you’re still employed at the end of it.

My last grandparent died when I was in high school. All of them lived into their 70s and 80s, but my folks had me fairly late. My classmates were raised by boomers, while I was raised by the previous cohort. Now I just have one remaining aunt from my parents’ generation left.


Jesse - Jan 23, 2023 6:30:27 pm PST #20149 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Glad you are still employed, shrift! It's rough out there.


JZ - Jan 23, 2023 6:40:59 pm PST #20150 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Very glad you’re still employed, shrift, but still. Do you have a team or other cohort? How are y’all doing?

I’ve been sleeping some infinite amount of time and I feel so much better I can’t even say.


brenda m - Jan 23, 2023 7:17:16 pm PST #20151 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I was lucky enough to know all my grandparents, but the last one died when I was in my teens. My siblings have fewer if any memories.

One of the reasons I’ve been so grateful to have reconnected with my half siblings is that it was starting to feel like we were very alone in the world, family wise. Knowing them makes me feel less unmoored, even while it also brings home how isolated we really were growing up. We had and have wonderful chosen family, but not the networks of aunts and uncles and cousins and all that so many have.


shrift - Jan 23, 2023 7:43:48 pm PST #20152 of 30000
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

Do you have a team or other cohort? How are y’all doing?

My team is intact, but I'm only starting to find out who all is gone, so it's been chaotic. I mean, I woke up Friday morning and checked my work calendar to see a last-minute meeting with a description that had me scrolling through my email to find out if another colleague had died, or if it was layoffs like everyone had been worried about. And then I got to get out of bed and login to work to see if I still had a job. Fun times!

The general sentiment in my cohort is that we're feeling demoralized and experiencing some survivor's guilt.

Yay for sleep!


brenda m - Jan 23, 2023 8:06:58 pm PST #20153 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Oh boy. That sounds very unpleasant


msbelle - Jan 23, 2023 8:23:26 pm PST #20154 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

I knew one great grandparent into elementary school. One grandfather died when I was in high school, the other when I was in college. My grandmother died before I adopted Mac, but my grandma lived to 100 and it will be 10 years since she died this year.

It’s weird to me that I don’t have guilt about not giving Mac a second patent, but I do wish he had 2 sets of grandparents. I got so much from mine.


NoiseDesign - Jan 23, 2023 8:26:23 pm PST #20155 of 30000
Our wings are not tired

I only really knew one of my grandparents. I don’t really have any distinct memories of the other three. Not only did they die when I was very young, they were also all up in Canada while we were in Southern California.


aurelia - Jan 23, 2023 10:05:16 pm PST #20156 of 30000
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

JZ, hooray for good sleep!

Oof, Shrift. I'm glad you're employed, but... yeah.

I've been fortunate when it comes to grandparents. I'm the oldest child of young parents, who were also each the oldest child. I knew all my grandparents and one great-grandparent and didn't lose a grandparent until I was in my 20s. I have one 96-yr-old grandmother still living. I need to figure out a time to visit her since my Christmas trip was cancelled.