That's disturbing. You're emotionally scarred and will end up badly.

Anya ,'Bring On The Night'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


sj - Jan 05, 2023 2:07:35 pm PST #19840 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Calli, tons of ~ma for you.

I’m home now. TCG just took ltc to karate and I’m going to take a nap.


Sheryl - Jan 05, 2023 4:38:30 pm PST #19841 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

~ma for you, Call.


meara - Jan 05, 2023 4:52:38 pm PST #19842 of 30000

My HR apparently for no reason made the last day for FSA reimbursement purposes 30dec instead of 31dec. Meanwhile I spent the $700 left in my FSA account on random crap on 31dec to not lose that money. Wtf. All the communications from the FSA people said 31dec. Who stops at 30dec?!? I had to open an HR case thing to see if they can change that and really am hoping that they can and that if not I can return the stuff (but then I’ll still be pissed because the FSA vendor will keep my $700!)

Because I was pissed, I also opened up an HR inquiry in the system asking when they intend to comply with the California and Washington laws regarding salary transparency (they have not been putting salary ranges in job postings yet). I’m sure they’ll say they’re looking into it or some shit, but I felt petty.


Karl - Jan 05, 2023 5:28:04 pm PST #19843 of 30000
I adore all you motherfuckers so much -- PMM.

Thank you, Grandma Lois, for watching over your weird grandson. Power was restored here at 4:57, just under 24 hours after it went out.

I am safe and sound, and I thank you all for your good wishes and thoughts.

Now let's see if it holds up through the next wave.


Laura - Jan 05, 2023 6:07:20 pm PST #19844 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

~ma for erikaj's ma!


Sophia Brooks - Jan 05, 2023 6:33:56 pm PST #19845 of 30000
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

I feel like I should tell Sophia that, for dinner tonight, I made an attempt at cabbage stuffed with filling that I'd layer in a lasagna. It was delicious.

I am glad you liked it!

I am glad your power is restored Karl.

Much ~ma to all who need it.


Karl - Jan 05, 2023 7:34:18 pm PST #19846 of 30000
I adore all you motherfuckers so much -- PMM.

Best wishes and love, as always, to Erika and her mom.


Pix - Jan 05, 2023 9:27:38 pm PST #19847 of 30000
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

Much ~ma to Erica's mom and to Calli! So glad you got your power back, Karl. And yikes, meara. How annoying. I'm glad you are making them comply with the law. I don't think that's petty at all.

On my end, just here tonight to say thank you, everyone, for creating this place. Today is ND and my 13th wedding anniversary, and that never would have happened without you.


Laura - Jan 06, 2023 4:07:27 am PST #19848 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Happy anniversary! A joyful memory for this place.


Calli - Jan 06, 2023 6:32:56 am PST #19849 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Thanks for the ~ma, y'all!

And foot~ma to erikaj's mom.

I'm going to go to my first in-person birthday party this afternoon. A friend's turning 70 and having a celebration. It's starting at 3:30 on a weekday, so it's pretty clear that she thinks her friends are all retired. That's not entirely true, but I'll catch the last hour or so. Honestly, I wasn't that comfortable at parties with mostly strangers before the pandemic, so having some time restraints works for me.