And almost sixty-five percent of that was actual compliment. Is that a personal best?

Xander ,'End of Days'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


JenP - Dec 28, 2022 9:57:05 am PST #19544 of 30000

-t, I've had that happen, too. But I was able to request a temporary ceiling raise through my bank app, so that was helpful. (I love USAA. One of the reasons I married Matt, ha! Kidding. I could get bank accounts as a "partner," but now I have access to All The Things; it IS a nice side benefit of being official, though.)

I am having a nice sort-of-working-but-also-chilling week. I read about 100 pages of an actual book yesterday. It was pleasant. My brain was like, "What is this information coming in via text on a page thing? It's pretty cool. I kind of remember liking this...)

I have thought recently of trying a social media diet. Not because I find it trying... I really only do FB, and my page is pretty mellow. But I do feel like reading a book more and scrolling less could have some benefits. I'm pondering the easiest way to do it. I suppose taking FB off of my phone would be an excellent start.


-t - Dec 28, 2022 10:16:35 am PST #19545 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I have a lot to do but it is all tedious fiddly stuff that I would so like to put off to some mythical future time when I will be more in the mood for that AND I am not really under much time pressure to get it done immediately but I am trying very hard to buckle down and do it. Oh, but I haven't had coffee yet, so I'd better take a break and make a cup. Honestly, that might help with the buckling down. I am so much more haphazard about coffee when I am at home than when I am in the office.


Calli - Dec 28, 2022 10:26:27 am PST #19546 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

My phone is scheduled to arrive tomorrow. Yay!

I’m glad you and ltc are feeling better, sj.


Jesse - Dec 28, 2022 10:33:41 am PST #19547 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

UGHHHHH it's annual review season and I've got SO MANY peer review requests this year.

OMG, 28?!?!? That is a nightmare. I forced myself to do four last week!


JenP - Dec 28, 2022 10:37:25 am PST #19548 of 30000

Holy crap, Jessica. I mean, it's a huge compliment that so many people want your review, but... yeah, that's a lot. There ought to be an upper limit! And 28 is way over it. Yikes.

Yup, -t, coffee is indicated. I just got mine. I have to be a moderator on a workshop in a few minutes. It was very necessary.


Susan W. - Dec 28, 2022 10:48:52 am PST #19549 of 30000
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

Last time my bank called to check on me was when I was in Canada in October--I'd had a Seattle charge go through the second day after I got to Vancouver (and started my Tim Horton's and Nando's spending spree), and I guess they needed to make sure I hadn't duplicated myself or something.


-t - Dec 28, 2022 11:10:28 am PST #19550 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Coincidentally, I just got a text message telling me there's unusual activity on one of my cards. There's no alert or message in the app and that card is actually over its limit (my clever security measure) so I'm not too worried and figure the link in the text is the actual danger.

Coffee made and consumed. Awaiting powers of motivation and concentration.


Dana - Dec 28, 2022 11:12:30 am PST #19551 of 30000
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

I used to do this, but my bank now has a message in the automated menu that says "If you're traveling you don't need to tell us" so I don't anymore!

Well, that's no fucking help, credit card companies.


shrift - Dec 28, 2022 11:45:02 am PST #19552 of 30000
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

Yeah, my bank also started doing the "don't even worry about" for travel alerts a while back, so I took it off my pre-travel to do lists.


askye - Dec 28, 2022 12:27:30 pm PST #19553 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

When I worked at Best Buy and did phone orders I had to tell people who were buying from out of state (for their kids in college usually) to call their bank and let them know and then call me back otherwise the purchase might be blocked. A few people weren't happy but it looks suspicious if there is suddenly a Mac book Pro being bought in Vermont when the card is being used daily (and the same day) in , say, Oregon.