Illyria: Wesley's dead. I'm feeling grief for him. I can't seem to control it. I wish to do more violence. Spike: Well, wishes just happen to be horses today.

'Not Fade Away'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


-t - Nov 17, 2022 2:26:50 pm PST #18670 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I cashed out 2 weeks of vacation time this year and last year, which was nice to have the extra money but I think in a general way I would be better served by taking the time off.


Jesse - Nov 17, 2022 3:10:45 pm PST #18671 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Oh no, Kate, I'm so sorry. What a terrible thing.


Sheryl - Nov 17, 2022 3:38:22 pm PST #18672 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

I’m sorry for your loss, Kate.

I get 8 hours annual leave and 4 hours sick leave per pay period. (I have been with my current employer 22 years) I can carry over 240 hours to the next year. I have a good bit more than that, and no plans for travel this year.


Cass - Nov 17, 2022 4:04:23 pm PST #18673 of 30000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

I am so sorry Kate. I'm glad you were able to be with her as she passed.

Sheryl, can you take some of those days as partial days as self-care time. Maybe take a long walk, go to a spa, late lunch with a cocktail? Time for YOU. You are under a terrible amount of stress and maybe carving out small bits of time that you've already accrued but look like a normal workday might give you a little relief.


-t - Nov 17, 2022 4:08:37 pm PST #18674 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Cass is sounding pretty sensible


Laura - Nov 17, 2022 4:42:50 pm PST #18675 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Oh Kate, I am so very sorry. May your memories bring you comfort.


Tom Scola - Nov 17, 2022 4:46:26 pm PST #18676 of 30000
Remember that the frontier of the Rebellion is everywhere. And even the smallest act of insurrection pushes our lines forward.

I’m so sorry, Kate.


meara - Nov 17, 2022 4:48:31 pm PST #18677 of 30000

Oh Kate, I’m so sorry. That was so quick from your recent post to now. How sad.


brenda m - Nov 17, 2022 5:21:13 pm PST #18678 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Oh Kate I’m so sorry. How terrible for you all.


brenda m - Nov 17, 2022 5:24:57 pm PST #18679 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I think in a general way I would be better served by taking the time off.

It took me a long time to really grasp it but this is absolutely true.