Gunn: We open a can of Machiavelli on his ass. Harmony: It's Matchabelli, Einstein, and it doesn't come in a can.

'Soul Purpose'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Laura - Nov 16, 2022 1:48:42 pm PST #18632 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Good grief, msbelle! I can't even.

Also, what y'all said about teeth, and insurance. Bullshit.


msbelle - Nov 16, 2022 2:20:16 pm PST #18633 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

For years I took sick days almost 1 a quarter sick or not, mental health days. But that was often at jobs with very little vacation and no personal days.

With 12 office holiday days a year, 5 personal days, and plenty (but still not enough) vacation, I haven’t done that with this job.


-t - Nov 16, 2022 2:29:44 pm PST #18634 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I keep thinking I should institute some kind of regular sick day taking whether I need it or not just because I have accumulated almost 3 weeks and that doesn't get paid out if you leave.


Sheryl - Nov 16, 2022 3:00:28 pm PST #18635 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

I haven't used a lot of sick leave-an hour here, an hour there for doctors' appointments mostly.(Though I used 5 hours today because we had an appointment at 11:30 with Mr. S's psychiatrist)

I was willing to use my sick leave when I had covid, but I had been put on a different type of leave.


Dana - Nov 16, 2022 4:46:58 pm PST #18636 of 30000
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

We get 3 sick days a year, which is so ridiculous that I'm choosing to ignore it.


-t - Nov 16, 2022 4:57:05 pm PST #18637 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

3?!?! Dang.


Sophia Brooks - Nov 16, 2022 5:57:37 pm PST #18638 of 30000
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

I am in the weird position of having so much vacation, I regularly lose it. I am carrying over 5 weeks per year and I get 5 weeks per year. I cannot take 10 weeks vacation and I wish I could give it to others. This is still because of a terrible job I had at the same company 17 years ago who would not let me take vacation, plus Covid, plus the fact that I am a single person dependency for several things. Basically I COULD, right now stop working for the rest of the year! And I feel guilty about it because I also have unlimited sick time, but after 10 days I have to apply for short term disability.

We are working on fixing this, but it is a slow process to untangle 17 years of single person dependency on an urgent problem solving thing…

I am sorry guys- the actual pay is terrible.


msbelle - Nov 16, 2022 6:45:47 pm PST #18639 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Take a day every couple of weeks. They will be fine for 1 day. Or start with taking half days. You deserve to have your time.


Jesse - Nov 16, 2022 7:04:23 pm PST #18640 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

It's true! That's what I did in 2020, and it was great.


Topic!Cindy - Nov 16, 2022 7:44:46 pm PST #18641 of 30000
What is even happening?

Okay, so I know I'm an apostate. Here are photos from my oldest boy's wedding. [link]