Mal: Inara, think you could stoop to being on my arm? Inara: Will you wash it first?

'Heart Of Gold'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


brenda m - Oct 13, 2022 3:40:08 pm PDT #17986 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Literally just inhaled aWhatchamacallit.

I also had pumpkin kringle this week for the first time. I’m always mildly surprised that anyone from this area even knows about kringle. I don’t know why. .

Happy b-day Matt! I am also waiting in anticipppppation of your birthday dinner report.


Jesse - Oct 13, 2022 3:41:19 pm PDT #17987 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Ooh, I have no plans this weekend, thank goodness, so I could go to TJs!


JenP - Oct 13, 2022 3:57:45 pm PDT #17988 of 30000

Which reminds me that I need to stock up on some TJ's pumpkin butter (and the GF pumpkin muffins and pancake mix, apparently.)


-t - Oct 13, 2022 4:08:47 pm PDT #17989 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

pumpkin-spiced pumpkin seeds

Oh, I forgot about those. So good. I have not been to TJ's to load up on pumpkiny goodness yet, I should get on that. The raviolis are a personal favorite.


shrift - Oct 13, 2022 5:06:34 pm PDT #17990 of 30000
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

Happy birthday, Matt!


Consuela - Oct 13, 2022 5:09:04 pm PDT #17991 of 30000
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

Happy birthday, Matt!

I took off work early and got a haircut, and talked to the guys at the bike shop, and walked the dog, and now I am ensconced on the couch with some whiskey-laced chai, doing a speed-run through the final Jan6 committee hearing.


Matt the Bruins fan - Oct 13, 2022 9:26:34 pm PDT #17992 of 30000
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

Where are you going to dinner, Matt? I love your dining reports.

Probably just Longhorn Steakhouse this time. Mom had indigestion and heartburn for much of the trip (thanks to a virgin piña colada by the pool), so I want to pick someplace that has standard fare she can safely enjoy rather than getting too fancy or exotic.

It's not particularly a hardship though. The wedding dinner Monday was at the Hawthorn Grill, where we had drinks and appetizers on the patio (cocktail shrimp, herb & parmesan arancini, and mini beef Wellingtons). For the dinner itself I had a filet mignon with red wine jus, caramelized shallots, roasted asparagus, and whipped potatoes. Followed up with a chocolate caramel mousse encased in a hard chocolate dome. No pictures I'm afraid, I was too busy scarfing down everything placed before me.


meara - Oct 13, 2022 9:31:14 pm PDT #17993 of 30000

The pumpkin spiced pumpkin seeds ARE good

I had dinner with a really close friend who moved out of town about a year and a half ago, with two other close friends, and man, I wish she hadn’t moved. Such a bummer. She’s not great at texting and doesn’t do social media so it’s hard.


DavidS - Oct 13, 2022 9:37:25 pm PDT #17994 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I've had no pumpkin items of any stripe this week! I did however, get JZ a tiny pumpkin cheesecake last week, and have been eyeing pumpkin pie for Matilda.

Followed up with a chocolate caramel mousse encased in a hard chocolate dome.

Yummmmmm.

I did discover that the German bakery I frequent makes a flourless cake (chocolate with raspberry mousse) which by virtue of its flourless-ness is gluten free. Which is good because my new friend at the bookstore is gluten free, and I was able to bring her a treat.

(Here's the San Francisco twist on the German bakery...They make traditional German style baked goods but the owner/baker is Vietnamese.)


DavidS - Oct 13, 2022 9:41:57 pm PDT #17995 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I had dinner with a really close friend who moved out of town about a year and a half ago, with two other close friends, and man, I wish she hadn’t moved. Such a bummer.

It is a huge fucking bummer and I'm more convinced than ever that people do not properly value PROXIMITY.

OMG, it makes everything possible. People act like friends moving away is not a death knell - BUT IT IS. Sure you have some contact, periodically, a few times a year. But it's not the same as seeing them several times a week.

People! Please, value proximity in all your life choices.

Similarly, people do not properly mourn the end of work friendships. These are people you see every day! And then suddenly, they are gone. Capitalism. But we're supposed to just act like that's normal and we're okay when our work bestie is disappeared.