A year and a half ago, I could have eviscerated him with my thoughts. Now I can barely hurt his feelings. Things used to be so much simpler.

Anya ,'Dirty Girls'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


DavidS - Aug 09, 2022 3:05:28 pm PDT #16780 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I'm definitely trying this.

As you can see from the comments, a lot of people credit this stretch with helping them manage their sciatica when nothing else worked. That's certainly the case for me.


Gudanov - Aug 09, 2022 3:49:30 pm PDT #16781 of 30000
Coding and Sleeping

Ugh, I just got my wife mad because I used the room where she is doing a tele-session to exercise. She said it would be at 6:00 and I finished at 5:36, but the client ended up being able to do it earlier. If I was considerate of her time, I should have exercised after her session. However, I was trying to be considerate because by exercising before, I could make dinner during the session and it wouldn't be late. I have a way of doing the wrong thing even when I try to do the right thing. I don't know why I bothered to exercise anyhow since I don't especially want to live. Anyhow, I'm off to cook dinner now.


Laura - Aug 09, 2022 4:16:00 pm PDT #16782 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

You don't do the wrong thing, Gud. You do too much of the right thing without being appreciated.

I made tuna melts in red and orange bell pepper boats, and they are so good!! And pretty!


Sheryl - Aug 09, 2022 4:40:04 pm PDT #16783 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Tomorrow we head out on our trip to Toronto.(convention) We're driving, and breaking the trip up into three days there and two days back, with stops at things to amuse Mr. S. I'm a bit nervous about this, as you might imagine.


Laura - Aug 09, 2022 4:50:31 pm PDT #16784 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

I'll be sending lots of calm~ma for all of you, Sheryl.


Theodosia - Aug 10, 2022 3:55:23 am PDT #16785 of 30000
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

Gud, you'd be in the wrong no matter what you would have chosen. Since there was an unexpected availability, I think you were less in the wrong to have exercised early so to get dinner done, since you couldn't anticipate it.

If you'd exercised later, you would have been criticized for not getting dinner done on time.


Theodosia - Aug 10, 2022 3:57:30 am PDT #16786 of 30000
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

PS Have a good trip, Sheryl!


Laura - Aug 10, 2022 8:22:16 am PDT #16787 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Chilly today. 70F, but feels chillier than that to me. I had been looking forward to a trip to Tupper Lake (where my dad was born) to go to the Wild Center, but I haven't heard a peep from the kids. Yesterday they made noises about maybe going Friday instead. I suspect she isn't feeling good, but it would be nice if they verified this. I am thinking of a date night tonight for us instead, and I'll do the family excursion Friday.

Also, in random whiny news, my younger son's wife is like 4 months pregnant, but they haven't bothered to tell us. Haven't seen them in about 18 months. They didn't bother to say happy mother's or father's day either. It is out of my hands, but I expect a prodigal son scenario at some point. Don't need hair pats, but this is something I carry in my shattered heart every day. I wish I could say I am not losing sleep over it anymore, but that isn't yet the case. Maybe some day it will get easier. Where there is life there is hope?


Theodosia - Aug 10, 2022 10:07:40 am PDT #16788 of 30000
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

Oh, that does suck. My brothers don't reach out to me at all, and I don't get much communication out of the family except for Facebook. I feel rather orphanned.


Laura - Aug 10, 2022 10:24:08 am PDT #16789 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

It is so outside of my lifetime family experience. All of my immediate family, siblings, cousins, and beyond have always been so close. If any of them showed up at my door at any time with or without notice I would be delighted and they are always welcome to stay. I know that the same holds true for them. Brendon is super close with all of his family too. It is a tradition in our family to surprise people by just showing up from out of town to visit and it has always been joyous fun. It is just the way we were raised. To not only not feel welcome by my own child, but to be completely rejected by him is just something I don't think I'll ever be able to understand.

tl;dr Parenting sucks.