Joyce: You don't think it's too obvious? I think I look like I have a cat on my head. Buffy: But a very well groomed cat. Joyce: Well that's a comfort.

'Bring On The Night'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Steph L. - Jun 24, 2022 1:40:15 pm PDT #15871 of 30000
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

it's unimaginable while mememe I'm in year 12 of perimenopause with five years of contraception jammed in my arm.

My 76-year-old mom put it best: it doesn't matter if a woman can bear a child or not, because they see all women as nothing more than incubators. That's all we're reduced to, and it's abhorrent.

At least we are down from 40-50 calls a day.

Our neighborhood is a hot one, real estate-wise, but I put the phone on silent while I'm working, until about 7 p.m., and they tend to not leave voicemails. We do get annoying letters in the mail from property flippers who want to buy Stately Beckmeyer Manor, and it ain't gonna happen. We could never buy or even rent for what our mortgage payment is right now. (Tim is all "We should pay the mortgage off!!!" and I have to counter with "Our APR is low and fixed-rate! We need to shove money into our retirement funds while the market is down!")


Calli - Jun 24, 2022 1:42:26 pm PDT #15872 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Today some instructors I support were being . . . challenging about providing stuff I needed to finish up this week's tasks, and I really wanted to tell them, "You're standing between me and drinking until I can't pronounce 'Supreme Court'. That's not a good place for you to be right now." But professionalism prevailed.


askye - Jun 24, 2022 2:15:52 pm PDT #15873 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

Yeah today is just...

I have felt bad today. Tired. I over did it and I got way too overheated yesterday and I'm feeling that. All I've really wanted to do is sleep all day. I'm holding out until 8 and then I'm taking Trazadone.

I did hear from the neuro opthomlogist. I have the first available appointment --Dec 6. Who knows if I'll still be having issues then. I can call back from time to time to see if there are cancelations. I'm not surprised I knew he was booked out.


Jesse - Jun 24, 2022 2:18:59 pm PDT #15874 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Ironically, I got my IUD swapped out today and said to the NP that I kind of wanted to give it to someone who needs it more than I do today!


Laura - Jun 24, 2022 2:43:26 pm PDT #15875 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

It's been over 20 years since I had to worry about pregnancy. I was married the first time in 1973 and remember well the Roe v Wade decision. The pill was fairly new in the 60s when I first became concerned with such matters. The thought that young women are now to be denied something that I took for granted these last 50 years just seems unreal.


sj - Jun 24, 2022 3:37:05 pm PDT #15876 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

We’re in MA with abortion protection and a guest bedroom.


Sheryl - Jun 24, 2022 3:53:11 pm PDT #15877 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Well, fuck. I got nothing else.


meara - Jun 24, 2022 4:02:15 pm PDT #15878 of 30000

I live three blocks from a planned parenthood and have a guest room. IJS.

Lisah that’s awesome that you’re already on the roster. But what a shit reason.


Dana - Jun 24, 2022 4:22:01 pm PDT #15879 of 30000
"I'm useless alone." // "We're all useless alone. It's a good thing you're not alone."

I can't offer anything, being in the shithole we call Texas, but I can offer money.

Meanwhile, my husband's Fox-News-watching parents are here, and MIL just asked me if Louisiana was pro-life. Fortunately, we're watching a movie and FIL shushed her quickly. It's better than Wednesday's reference to "the blacks" and her misgendering of husband's trans cousin.


-t - Jun 24, 2022 4:41:03 pm PDT #15880 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Dear lord, Dana. Hang in there.