askye, I'm glad you're cleared, and I hope your return goes as smoothly as possible.
OK, folks, it is done! Went off without a hitch... heh, heh. Except for the part where we got hitched. Officiant was great, photographer was super nice and fun. DP is now DH. I should have pictures in a few days, plus I'll share a phone shot or two once I have a chance to edit.
But I have to tell this funny thing. So, a while back I ordered a lovely dress from e-Shakti that I had planned to wear if it fit well, etc., recognizing that it might not, because I just ordered a size, not a customized one. I knew it probably wouldn't get here on time, but then I'd still have a pretty dress, so win-win.
Found a perfectly serviceable dress in a store. All good.
We just got home. Guess what was on the doorstep? Yup. And it fits like a dream, and I love it. Ah, ha, ha, ha!
So, I'm doing a costume change before we go out for celebratory dinner. I don't even have a good pair of shoes for it, but I don't care. It's so pretty!!
But mostly, yay, married!
Thanks for all the good wishes, folks. They worked.