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sj - Mar 08, 2022 10:25:55 am PST #13668 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

The lender has funded the loan, which means we are now Fully Chonky with finance and the title will transfer this afternoon.

Woo Hoo! That's fantastic news.

Thanks for all the good thoughts for DH. He has a consult tomorrow, and we're hoping to get the colonoscopy soon rather than later.

Good luck. I know booking medical tests has been hard lately around here. I hope things are better near you.

The worst part of a colonoscopy is the preparation. I got pictures after mine; I'm very pink inside.

Last time TCG had one he had a much easier prep than I had. He only had to drink two things of liquid, as opposed to the 8 or so I had to drink. So, definitely ask about that if you can.


meara - Mar 08, 2022 2:17:28 pm PST #13669 of 30000

This article and my realization that nobody under 35 probably remembers card catalogues is making me feel very old:

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Sheryl - Mar 08, 2022 2:31:20 pm PST #13670 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Yay, Hec and JZ!


NoiseDesign - Mar 08, 2022 3:18:34 pm PST #13671 of 30000
Our wings are not tired

The lender has funded the loan, which means we are now Fully Chonky with finance and the title will transfer this afternoon.

I'm so thrilled for you! I so clearly remember the feeling when we got all of that done on this house.


DavidS - Mar 08, 2022 10:02:10 pm PST #13672 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I'm so thrilled for you! I so clearly remember the feeling when we got all of that done on this house.

We have the keys!

We wandered around in the Garden apartment which we can start furnishing immediately. And....it's not big enough to have a full diner booth. But JZ correctly noted that one bedroom can be the main bedroom, and the other bedroom will be a living room/convertible couch bed room. And that the window nook area is still fine for a smaller dinette set.

The garden however, is lovely, and has warm glowing lights out there, and we have five trees in our backyard and a view of St. Ignatius' two towers: [link]

I think we're both in more shock than elation. I feel much the same way I did on the first night I did when I arrived at college where I walked around with my high school best friend and we said, "Welp. Here we are. This place that will change our lives. I wonder how that's going to work out."

(Spoiler note: it worked out very well, but there was just no context for that first night and there's no context for a new house until you get in there and make it your own.)


JZ - Mar 08, 2022 10:15:48 pm PST #13673 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

I personally am feeling like a dog that went chasing a car like an idiot and actually caught it--not only caught a car but caught it the very first time out. Look, I was TOLD and TOLD by experienced car-chasers that (a) I might very well never catch one at all, ever, and (b) I definitely wouldn't catch the first, or second, or third, or fifth, or in this town even tenth, so I'd better be ready to play the long game. So I took a random lunge at one and now I've got it and as God is my witness I have no idea what to do next.

OTOH, the night before we did our last walk-through and decided to put in the offer, Hec and I watched a YouTube reaction video of someone watching It's A Wonderful Life for the first time, and we watched Mary working hard on the old Granville place ("It's full of romance, that place." "That place? I wouldn't live in it as a ghost."), cosseting it and coaxing it into life and warmth out of sheer love and refusal to give up on something nearly broken whose essential worth she deeply believes in. And it heartened both of us. And then tonight the owner's DIL told us, "I'm so glad you got it, and not someone who wanted to wreck it or push everyone out."

So we'll tend to it and care for it for however many years it takes, inch by inch, crack by crack, nook by nook and cranny by cranny.


Laura - Mar 09, 2022 3:42:33 am PST #13674 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

I'm so very happy for you. No doubt there is a flood of varying emotions! Breathe! Enjoy! Although Brendon suffered through many of his house restoration projects, the satisfaction with the results was quite worthwhile. (He offers to help anytime!) Also, picturing JZ as the cutest enthusiast car chasing puppy ever.

Two weeks from today I will be homeless! One of our big differences is that I can make a decision in about 30 seconds, while Brendon debates all the options endlessly. We have not secured dock space for a live-aboard, but it may still be possible at end of season, which generally is about May 1, or before/after Easter/Passover, depending on the seasonal family's traditions or visa status. All options are still open, renting until we find the perfect place, staying with my BIL temporarily until we make a decision, going north to arrange contractors for doing things to the Otter Lake house. We'll probably take a trip up there anyway since we have to stash the small boat somewhere and it lives up there in summer anyway. It would be a short NY visit as the normal seasonal temps are 40s in the day and upper 20s at night, and rain, and mud and black flies. So yeah, all is up in the air.


Dana - Mar 09, 2022 4:11:08 am PST #13675 of 30000
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

I woke up at FOUR, what the shit.


Dana - Mar 09, 2022 4:20:13 am PST #13676 of 30000
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

I could go get kolaches, but it's 31 degrees outside.


sj - Mar 09, 2022 4:47:32 am PST #13677 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

JZ and Hec gave me allergies this morning. I'm so happy for all of you!