Funny thing about black and white. You mix it together and you get gray. And it doesn't matter how much white you try and put back in, you're never gonna get anything but gray.

Lilah ,'Destiny'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Beverly - Mar 01, 2022 5:57:45 pm PST #13509 of 30000
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Um. I'm with Dana on the news-cancelling headphones.

Can we maybe make a news thread for hard news, and save Natter for news-light conversation? I come here for sanctuary, and right now, it's not that. I care about all of you and what's going on in your lives. But I can't keep up with you if news keeps intruding.

I do keep up with the news, I'm not completely avoidant. I'd just rather not deal with it *here*. Here is where I go to set that aside for a little while and relax a bit with my friends. It's okay if you don't agree. I just thought I'd bring it up.


meara - Mar 01, 2022 6:23:20 pm PST #13510 of 30000

Drinks after work, Jesse? Wowwwww, what's that like? I don't even remember....


Jesse - Mar 01, 2022 6:26:13 pm PST #13511 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

It's been literally two years!


Laura - Mar 02, 2022 5:12:29 am PST #13512 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Going out for drinks with friends. Ahhh, I'll just sit with that notion for a bit. Well done.


Toddson - Mar 02, 2022 5:25:44 am PST #13513 of 30000
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

I now have noise-cancelling headphones ... they're blocking the sound of the techies doing arcane technical stuff with our servers. yay!


-t - Mar 02, 2022 6:28:12 am PST #13514 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Woo, Toddson!


msbelle - Mar 02, 2022 7:00:23 am PST #13515 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

It’s work from home day today. I’m only one day a week wfh and have been back in the office most days for months and months.

Wfh means I can watch movies and/or knitting podcasts while doing data entry or other non-thinky work.

I’m taking advantage of being well rested and non-hectic workday to do some heavy lifting on serious movies for Oscar Watch.


JenP - Mar 02, 2022 7:10:09 am PST #13516 of 30000

I am currently in the dentist's chair waiting for a cleaning. Just a cleaning. No drills, no needles, no nothing. Practically nirvana.

Then I need to go home and get a bunch of WFH done.

And yay for drinks after work!


Calli - Mar 02, 2022 7:19:06 am PST #13517 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I hope to go out for drinks with friends again soon. There's a cider bar within walking distance, and they give some percentage of their profits to dog rescue. But they opened in 2020, so I haven't really felt able to take advantage of their presence.


Toddson - Mar 02, 2022 7:22:03 am PST #13518 of 30000
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

I was reading an article about dentists who now have dogs - I believe they're officially called "facility dogs" - who help keep nervous patients calmer. Dogs are carefully trained to work with multiple people, not react to the dentist's drill, lie on the patient's lap, rest on a clean cover on the person's lap and happily be petted while the dentist works. If another patient is allergic or afraid, dog is put in a separate room. Cleanliness is emphasized, so everyone's safe. I'm much less afraid of dentists now, but I could have used this when I was in my 20s.