I stayed up watching reels on IG for HOURS last night. why? no clue. do I remember anything really good? no do I regret it? yep.

Good chance I try a mini-nap later.

Hi, y’all. I’m 200+ messages behind, so there was a lot of skimming. I’m sorry about the fraught family stuff and the COVID and other health issues among them.

I went to my sister’s for Christmas. Her church is anti mask, so she hasn’t been going there lately. (They’re also really conservative, so I don’t really feel comfortable there in non-pandemic times—but I’m willing to suck it up once a year to make my sister happy.) Anyway, she has a friend who invited her to her Methodist Christmas Eve service, and as we were raised Methodist it was a total nostalgia trip. It was also in Oxford, the small town that had a school shooting a few weeks ago. Which is how I found out that my sister lives 20 minutes from that school and was correspondingly wigged about it. The copycat threats—including one kid trying to bring in ammo—at her own school didn’t help. Ugh. Wtf, kids?

In better news, we all went to the Detroit Zoo Lights, where the zoo sets up this huge LED installation. It’s very cool, as well as being outside, with masks required. (About as safe as a public gathering can be, COVID-wise.)

Now I’m home, with my regular post-travel cold. I was rigorous about masking, so I’d hoped to avoid it. Anyway, my rapid test was negative (the PCR test is scheduled for Monday), so it’s probably just a cold.

Dad is back on his way home. He stopped here this morning and we took a short walk and we visited and I was able to give him the last present I had for him. He was looking through some pictures I took at the beach and really liked one of me and M so I got that printed and in a frame for him.

My brother and SIL sent me a gift, after talking to them they will be happy with donations in their name so .. now I'm trying to figure out which orgs to do that.

In a small nice thing about end of the year I'm getting my Vyvanse picked up today and so I have one more month before having to pay the high price for it. Still nothing in the mail from workers comp so I'll be working on an email to send , cc-ing to HR people at work and then calling until I get a hold of someone next week.

Betty White died. I'm sad that she's gone, but it's hard for me to feel angry when she had such an amazing and long life.

Yeah, I just don’t know what to say.

Timelies all!

Well, Betty White had a good long run of it.

Went to the supermarket to pick a prescription for Mr. S. There was this guy standing by the pharmacy with a KN95 mask...hanging off his ear. To add to the annoyance, he was keeping up a fairly steady stream of commentary. Really, dude?

Betty White died. I'm sad that she's gone, but it's hard for me to feel angry when she had such an amazing and long life.

Same. She was trading jokes with Ryan Reynolds up until a couple of days ago.

We did some quick errands and happened to pass an urgent care and there were about 20 people waiting around outside. Separately.

Betty White died. I'm sad that she's gone, but it's hard for me to feel angry when she had such an amazing and long life.

I'm a little sad that she was so close to making it to 100, but she had a good life.

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