My Mom's father absolutely hated his middle name, to the point I don't know what it actually was. He declared his middle name was just a Y, and began pitting "Y (only)" on forms that asked for a middle name.
Naturally this resulted in people thinking he was [firstname] Yonly [lastname].
I'm so sorry for your and your family's loss, sj.
sj, I'm sorry to hear of your uncle's passing. Peace and strength to your family. Your poor aunt.
He was an honorary uncle but I spent a lot of time in that home as a child. I feel so bad for his kids and grandkids.
I am sorry, sj. My condolences.