If you take sexual advantage of her, you're going to burn in a very special level of hell. A level they reserve for child molesters and people who talk at the theater.

Book ,'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


-t - Nov 30, 2021 11:57:42 am PST #10996 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh, wow, flea! How exciting, whatever you decide


flea - Nov 30, 2021 12:19:42 pm PST #10997 of 30000
information libertarian

Dillo is currently a sophomore in high school and is not coincidentally the most opposed to the idea of moving. Casper graduated in may and is currently gap year-ing, although also not making any moves to start applying to schools for next year. She can do that anywhere and loves cape cod.


flea - Nov 30, 2021 12:24:32 pm PST #10998 of 30000
information libertarian

But also people you’re not supposed to say “wow! That’s a decision all right!” You’re supposed to tell me what to do with my life.


Sparky1 - Nov 30, 2021 12:39:34 pm PST #10999 of 30000
Librarian Warlord

We're better at the "what's for lunch" level of what to do with your life.


Toddson - Nov 30, 2021 12:53:11 pm PST #11000 of 30000
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

To cheer you up, another Thanksgiving tradition video.


-t - Nov 30, 2021 12:55:23 pm PST #11001 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh sorry, did not understand the assignment


Laura - Nov 30, 2021 1:05:27 pm PST #11002 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

That is the very definition of a very big decision. And very good options.


shrift - Nov 30, 2021 1:11:52 pm PST #11003 of 30000
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

Dang, flea. Would you be able to use a Cape Cod job offer to negotiate better pay or benefits with your current job going full time? Or would the timing not work?

I started checking my work email and calendar to find I've been scheduled for a last-minute 8:30am meeting tomorrow when I'll be lucky if I get home by midnight tonight. I also discovered that I'm On Call tomorrow, when I'm already going to have hundreds if not thousands of emails to get through and have work meetings with lawyers after lunch. I need to pick up prescriptions that I'm completely out of and the pharmacy doesn't open until 9am. I need groceries. I need to not murder all the people who thought scheduling me for this on my first day back was a good idea.


Kate P. - Nov 30, 2021 1:23:10 pm PST #11004 of 30000
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

Wow, flea, good luck! I am starting to look more seriously at library jobs in the Northeast (we have GOT to move out of Tennessee) and must admit I am rather envious of your Cape Cod job offer. And also very happy for you, of course! But I totally empathize with the difficulty of weighing the various pros and cons and having to take many other people's preferences into account as well. Hoping for the best outcome for you!


askye - Nov 30, 2021 1:28:00 pm PST #11005 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

Flea that sounds like 2 good optoins but I would go for Cape Cod. i mean.. just because it's near the ocean.

Ok So I finally got out of the walk in place. Well I've been out since 230 but had to make phone calls etc.

Verdict is I need compete brainrest, which I haven't started yet since there is stuff to do. So no screens for a week (after I get off here and update on FB ) , no reading, nothing mentally strenuous. Maybe listening to light hearted audiobooks, coloring, or things that don't require too much concentration etc. And then revaluation next week. Maybe I could play an easy card game with M, like War or something. short walks if I feel like it and staying away from bright lights and drinking lots of water.

and lots of naps, short walks in the mornings or evening , that is what I was told to do. It's actually going to be hard to do this because I get bored easy. Maybe I'll figure out something else I can do that is fun but not a lot of mental work.

And one of my fave fanfic authors just released a new fic and now I'll have to wait.

See y'all in a week (hopefully)