You're right. He's evil. But you should see him naked. I mean really!

Buffybot ,'Dirty Girls'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Vortex - Nov 27, 2021 4:30:57 pm PST #10931 of 29947
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Timelies! Back from a quick trip to DC, staying with my brother.

Bro woke up on Thursday with a high fever, so SIL ran out to get COVID tests. Luckily was negative, but he wasn't up to cooking, so so I ended up making Thanksgiving mac and cheese (my recipe is very similar to the Wonkette recipe, just different cheeses), my niece made mashed potatoes and we basically had an all carb dinner.

Minor drama that my SIL texted my mother to tell her that Bro was sick and not to come for dinner, but didn't get a response. SIL was convinced that Mom had blocked her (turns out that Mom had changed her number and not bothered to tell SIL, so still not great, but not as bad)

Friday, Bro decided to smoke the turkey (he was going traditional roast for Thanksgiving, but decided to go rogue since it was the day after). It was really good.

Mom came over and dramatically declared that she had an epiphany, and she has not loved SIL as she should (yes, after 20 years of treating SIL like crap whenever she could get away with it) and that she was turning over a new leaf. Um, okay, we'll see.

Today, had lunch with two of my BFFs from college (her husband invited himself along, which I was annoyed by even though I like him a lot), and am now home. I have acquired pho and will watch some Hawkeye.

Also, Teppy - was there an announcement? Are they getting married/pregnant? I feel like you set us up for NEWS.


meara - Nov 28, 2021 12:22:44 am PST #10932 of 29947

Vortex that is bizarro. Like yeah, it’s been 20 years, your epiphany is a little overdue?

I went on a hike with my friend and her gf this afternoon—it was not great as we didn’t communicate ahead of time enough what “a short hike not too hard” meant to each of us….it all worked out in the end but there was definitely 15 minutes or so where I was ready to murder her. Later we hit up the Korean spa. And then her gf got mad at her and stormed off and sent multiple texts and a voice message….and so friend and I watched a movie for a bit and when I came back to my room to go to bed discovered the gf has left me a 5 minute long voice message. Ummmmmm…..


shrift - Nov 28, 2021 6:43:23 am PST #10933 of 29947
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

Oh dear, meara.

We celebrated my mom's birthday yesterday. Today we're going over to my sister's to celebrate my niece's birthday, as she hasn't had a fever in days and she's allowed to go back to school on Tuesday. I'll still be wearing a mask since I'm getting on a plane in a couple of days.

I'm trying to focus my energy on encouraging COVID testing and handing out K-N95 masks like Halloween candy, since I can't control the behavior of the adults currently around me.


Laura - Nov 28, 2021 8:18:17 am PST #10934 of 29947
Our wings are not tired.

Ugh, shrift. I am sorry it has been such a fraught visit.


Steph L. - Nov 28, 2021 8:29:52 am PST #10935 of 29947
Apparently if you're enough of a power nerd, there is nothing that cannot be flowcharted.

Also, Teppy - was there an announcement? Are they getting married/pregnant? I feel like you set us up for NEWS.

Nothing, dang it! The biggest news was that nephew made 2 turkeys.


sumi - Nov 28, 2021 11:49:01 am PST #10936 of 29947
Art Crawl!!!

FYI - apparently Howling Time (Not This Time x Werewolf) may be a classy enough colt to make it to the Derby. If so: Buffista Derby Pick?

He is pretty - even if he didn’t earn any points yesterday.


sumi - Nov 28, 2021 11:56:27 am PST #10937 of 29947
Art Crawl!!!

Random: in the next race - (watching NYRA on delay) there is a horse named Gringotts by Central Banker & one called Effiemeister by Bodemeister x Effie Trinket. The favorite in the last race was named Kissing Frogs, alas, she came in second.


Dana - Nov 28, 2021 12:16:28 pm PST #10938 of 29947
"I'm useless alone." // "We're all useless alone. It's a good thing you're not alone."

Effiemeister is an excellent horse name.


Sheryl - Nov 28, 2021 12:32:32 pm PST #10939 of 29947
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Normal Sunday here. I'm doing laundry and watching Legends of Tomorrow while Gary has brought Mr. S over to his mom's for a playdate.


aurelia - Nov 28, 2021 2:03:11 pm PST #10940 of 29947
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

Timelies! I just caught up on the last 2 weeks of Natter. Please know that appropriate sympathies and vibes were expressed as I read.

My Thanksgiving was a quiet day away from A Christmas Carol tech (opening is tonight) just like in the before times. I read a book while the cats took turns on my lap and then made a sweet potato, carrot, red lentil soup and an apple crisp. Tomorrow is a focus and then into tech for the next show.