You've got my support. Just think of me as...as your... You know, I'm searching for 'supportive things' and I'm coming up all bras.

Xander ,'Empty Places'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Laura - Nov 06, 2021 7:08:50 am PDT #10437 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

I had a very productive meeting with my MD. Turns out she thinks I'm not making this up for attention

Wonderful to get precious sleep!! It is good to hear you got a good doctor who listens.

The doctors who discount their patients claims are the worst. My most favorite doctor told me that a number of his elderly patients clearly made appointments with him just because they were lonely and needed attention, but he felt it was just as important for their health to see them and provide that care as any other type of medical care. We were moving his office, like actually packing boxes and moving computers, when an elderly couple came in for a visit. They had the wrong date. His staff was turning them away when he insisted on seeing them. Sat them down in a room and talked to them about their concerns and took care of them. He was the sweetest.

He had a different attitude with medications too as his background was pharmacology before medicine. He would write his script with a normal sig, but explain to his patients, if you feel like X you only need 1 pill, and if you feel like Y you should take 2, and if you feel like Z call me. He strongly felt patients needed to have more control and spent a lot of time explaining things assuming his patients were intelligent adults.


Laura - Nov 06, 2021 7:10:15 am PDT #10438 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

People who want longer days in the winter need to move to Florida! We have the extra daylight time! Okay, our politics seriously suck, but if more sane people move here we can overcome.


juliana - Nov 06, 2021 8:34:26 am PDT #10439 of 30000
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

Laura, I wish I could find a doctor like the one you described. I had one like that in Minneapolis, and I loved her. It's strangely hard for me to find one like that here in SF.

Hugs to all that need it. I've been trying to get a COVID vax appointment for Peanut for the last hour, and it's an exercise in frustration. The closest appointments are a full neighborhood away and 2 weeks away, and I'd really like to get her started ASAP & close to home (for comforting purposes). But she & I will be getting our flu vax today, so we've got that going for us.


Jessica - Nov 06, 2021 8:52:07 am PDT #10440 of 30000
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

I've been trying to get a COVID vax appointment for Peanut for the last hour, and it's an exercise in frustration. The closest appointments are a full neighborhood away and 2 weeks away

I just made one for Aeryn on the 20th at a pharmacy half an hour away because everything else was booked. I'm really hoping our school district is able to organize a vaccine clinic for the elementary students like they did for 12+ a few months ago so I can cancel it!


Jesse - Nov 06, 2021 11:44:28 am PDT #10441 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I've got to figure vax appts for kids will open up in a couple of weeks like they did for adults, right? Not that that is much consolation for families who have already been waiting all year.

I've been "sleeping" in my lounge chair an hour or two at a time for a while now because apparently my bed is lava

OMG, Beverly, that sounds so awful. Glad you got some good doctoring.


Sheryl - Nov 06, 2021 12:02:34 pm PDT #10442 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

We got an appointment for Mr. S for Wednesday for his first COVID shot.

The hits keep coming. The hinge on one arm of my glasses broke. Luckily we were in the same shopping center as my eyeglasses place, and they found a new frame to put my lenses in. Still cost me $170…

Also, our nanny told us that she’s moving out of state at the end of the month, so we have to find a new one. It’s going to be a tough transition for Mr. S as they have a good rapport.


Laura - Nov 06, 2021 2:23:08 pm PDT #10443 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Eeep on the glasses, and a bigger eeep for poor Mr. S. It will be a tough time. I do hope you can find someone quickly that will click with him.


JZ - Nov 06, 2021 7:25:24 pm PDT #10444 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

So very happy for you, Bev! And vibing hard that having almost a month's notice will be enough for you to find another good match for Mr. S.

Digits crossed for easy appointmentation for all the remaining younger Buffista sproggins. Matilda is all Pfizered up, and a couple of days ago she started bugging me all on her own about a flu vaccine, so now she has an appointment at the neighborhood Walgreens for Wednesday. I'm both joyful for her and kind of flummoxed--between this, navigating the City, and sailing smoothly back into regular socializing with what appears to be a group of really lovely young adults, I feel like she's more mature, grounded and competent at 15 than I was at 25 and I'm not sure she needs me for anything but the routine things that come up when one isn't yet a legal adult.


meara - Nov 06, 2021 11:18:14 pm PDT #10445 of 30000

Yikes good luck finding a new nanny, Sheryl!!

I spent the evening playing board games with some friends and found out one only has a prescription in one eye of her glasses. So we promptly tried to convince her she really needs a monocle. Impractical, sure, but awesome?

Also my dog is being weird lately and I can’t tell why. Sick? Learning bad habits? I’m taking less good care of him? I don’t know!!


msbelle - Nov 07, 2021 5:37:58 am PST #10446 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

My dogs are angels and let me sleep in, but....Miley is having incontinence in her sleep again and her diaper came off while she was in my bed. So laundry today.

the itchy is somewhat better but still get really itchy when the benedryl and steroid cream wear off.

today I'm hoping to clean some, knit some, and cook some.