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Natter 76: Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Foaminess  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


DavidS - Mar 31, 2019 8:20:23 pm PDT #6453 of 30019
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Had a date today. Not going to go anywhere but man it would've been so convenient, she lives like a block away! I mean, not that I matched with her because of that but it would've been awfully convenient.

I was just talking with Jacqueline yesterday about how much proximity matters and how people don't value it properly and just move away. Then they get lonely and isolated. Being physically near to people you care about is huge.


Zenkitty - Mar 31, 2019 10:52:43 pm PDT #6454 of 30019
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Being physically near to people you care about is huge.

It really is. My best friends live in different states; it's an eight-hour drive between me and Gretchen, and a cross-country flight to Katie. My friends in the area are a 30-40 minute drive, which still feels like a lot, especially driving home after dark on twisty country roads. I don't get lonely much, really, but it would be very good to have friends within 5-10 minutes to hang out with, without having to make plans well in advance. Not sure how many adults actually get to have that, in our society, anymore.


Jesse - Apr 01, 2019 3:46:44 am PDT #6455 of 30019
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Because I think internet April Fool's jokes like "our site used to be X, but now we're Y!!" are funny, I meant to come up with something for the Good Stuff tumblr, but definitely not Bad Stuff! So I didn't think of anything. Oh well.


Steph L. - Apr 01, 2019 4:12:58 am PDT #6456 of 30019
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Because I think internet April Fool's jokes like "our site used to be X, but now we're Y!!" are funny

I love those. The year PornHub became CornHub was my favorite.


Jesse - Apr 01, 2019 5:37:11 am PDT #6457 of 30019
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Speaking of Good Stuff, I see stories like this [link] and think they are nice, but then I think why the fuck is an 80-year-old man still needing to work? And then I no longer think the story is good stuff.

What say you?


Amy - Apr 01, 2019 5:41:02 am PDT #6458 of 30019
Because books.

Yeah, but then half the stories in the world would be not good stuff, I think.

Does Google not do April Fool's stuff anymore? When did that happen?


Dana - Apr 01, 2019 5:48:33 am PDT #6459 of 30019
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

I can definitely see it giving second thoughts, Jesse.

I am already pre-exhausted from April Fool's. Though my Google calendar did say something about organizing it with a game? So I'm guessing there's something in there somewhere, Amy.


Steph L. - Apr 01, 2019 5:48:42 am PDT #6460 of 30019
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Does Google not do April Fool's stuff anymore? When did that happen?

Google Maps has an old-school snake game: [link]


Jesse - Apr 01, 2019 5:52:07 am PDT #6461 of 30019
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Yeah, but then half the stories in the world would be not good stuff, I think.

This is why I share so few stories anymore! "Look at this formerly-abused pet!" "Community raises millions to pay for child's medical care!" "Cops do nice thing!"


-t - Apr 01, 2019 5:52:17 am PDT #6462 of 30019
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I think they cut way back, Amy. Not sure when that happened. They have a "snake" game in Maps. Back in the day they'd have something for every feature, right?

I see what you mean, Jesse. In that particular case, it seems like all the individual humans are bringing what good they can into a world with major systemic problems, so, on balance I'm going to say it's Good because that's so often the best we can do and it's worth celebrating