This is my amazing ability to fuck things up at play.
No, this is your wife's amazing ability to get mad at you for anything and everything at play.
Kaylee: Captain seem a little funny to you at breakfast this morning? Wash: Come on, Kaylee. We all know I'm the funny one.
'Heart Of Gold'
Natter 76: Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Foaminess
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
Kate P. - Jan 26, 2019 5:55:20 pm PST #4452 of 30019
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love
DavidS - Jan 26, 2019 6:00:57 pm PST #4453 of 30019
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."
There's nothing amazing about the fact that your wife is an abusive asshole, Gud.
Gudanov - Jan 26, 2019 6:08:33 pm PST #4454 of 30019
Coding and Sleeping
She is under a lot of stress right now. In any event the pain is settling down.
amych - Jan 26, 2019 6:12:59 pm PST #4455 of 30019
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?
GUD YOU ARE AN AWESOME PERSON AND YOU DON'T DESERVE THIS
-t - Jan 26, 2019 6:31:32 pm PST #4456 of 30019
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
OK, I thought you had fallen on it, but I think I misread your post. I hope it feels better tomorrow and that you family treats you with a little more care and compassion.
Consuela - Jan 26, 2019 7:34:13 pm PST #4457 of 30019
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix
Gud, do me a favor: you spend a lot of time giving your wife the benefit of the doubt. Can you give yourself the benefit of the doubt? Why is it when she gets angry it's justified, but when you make a mistake it's not forgivable?
That's not right, not fair, and shows a real imbalance in your own thinking.
aurelia - Jan 26, 2019 8:03:51 pm PST #4458 of 30019
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.
Gud, you should blame your wife for the weather just to balance things out.
askye - Jan 27, 2019 5:06:44 am PST #4459 of 30019
Thrive to spite them
Gud you are under a lot of stress! You hurt your arm, you lost a job, you found a job, you have all these deadlines and responsibilities and you don't get help from your spouse.
Please give yourself the same leeway you give your wife.
Laura - Jan 27, 2019 8:49:35 am PST #4460 of 30019
Our wings are not tired.
I'm not a person prone to anger, but Gud's wife makes me angry.
Compassion and concern are the appropriate response when your spouse is hurt!!!!! Not anger, ever.
I hope that the recovery is quick, and even more I hope you figure out that you deserve an abundance of love and support in your life, and never to be the subject of anger.
brenda m - Jan 27, 2019 9:00:38 am PST #4461 of 30019
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there
What amych and David said. Gud you don't deserve this and she is not under any stress that justifies it.
ION, am still alive and probably being discharged soon. They are considering the blood clots to be at the lower risk end, and hopefully manageable with medication. I've also got really low iron levels and a red blood cell count low enough that they debated a transfusion, but since it's stsyed stable and all my vitals have been strong throughout that is also in the serious bit probably not scary list. So all in all pretty good news.
Also I cannnot express how thankful I am to be one of the lucky ones with good insurance. I'm fortunate enough to have made the choice to have a manageable deductible and OOP max and so one thing I have not had to do is internally panic every time one more nurse shows up with one more test. I've had X-rays, ekgs, ultrasounds, CTs and blood tests. I shudder to imagine what this would be costing.