No studying? Damn! Next thing they'll tell me is I'll have to eat jelly doughnuts or sleep with a supermodel to get things done around here. I ask you, how much can one man give?

Xander ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Natter 76: Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Foaminess  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Topic!Cindy - Nov 17, 2020 7:19:32 pm PST #29859 of 30019
What is even happening?

Aims, that house is adorable. Enjoy.

Yay for testing negative in a positive way, dcp!


meara - Nov 17, 2020 7:38:44 pm PST #29860 of 30019

Wow dcp that is fast--I thought our ~22 hour turnaround was quick!


askye - Nov 17, 2020 8:36:37 pm PST #29861 of 30019
Thrive to spite them

Aims that house is so cute! love the sunroom/porch and the tree and the window seat.

Windy, I understand where you are coming from with a lack of alone time. M and his mom are here all the time and they can be so loud. and when M gets excited or happy or is playing Xbox HE GETS REALLY LOUD. AND THEN EVEN LOUDER and I spend a lot of time with headphones on listening to stuff in the other room or with the window a/c unit on full blast. Occasionally I have kicked them out.. well encouraged them to go to the store or take a drive or something just so I can have time alone.


sj - Nov 17, 2020 8:38:54 pm PST #29862 of 30019
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

The link to Aimee’s shiny new house won’t work for me.


Susan W. - Nov 17, 2020 8:51:33 pm PST #29863 of 30019
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

Yay for fast negatives, dcp!

And Aims, the house and yard are gorgeous.


WindSparrow - Nov 18, 2020 4:51:22 am PST #29864 of 30019
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Yay, new imperial palace!


Laura - Nov 18, 2020 5:06:18 am PST #29865 of 30019
Our wings are not tired.

Woot! I love those negative results.

Went to an actual restaurant last night. There were only a handful of people, very far away, and it was outside. Bottom line, I think I like staying home. I used to like going out so very much, but now I think how I could cook that, and my chairs are more comfy, and I could be braless. It just isn't relaxing anymore. Maybe after pandemic I will be able to relax more and consider it a treat.


Trudy Booth - Nov 18, 2020 5:42:07 am PST #29866 of 30019
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Empress, the house is darling.


Aims - Nov 18, 2020 5:45:01 am PST #29867 of 30019
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Thanks, everyone!!

The house is amazing and I can’t wait.

I was telling David yesterday that I was excited to post about it because years and years ago I was lamenting that I would never be able to buy a house and DXM promised that one day ...

And now I’m on that road and I can’t even tell him thank you.

But! I will decorate and maintain and be happy that my friend watched me do something he told me I’d be able to do.


Aims - Nov 18, 2020 5:49:43 am PST #29868 of 30019
Shit's all sorts of different now.

In the meantime, I need to get dressed and ready to teach this morning and I am just not feeling it today. I’ll dig deep and use all my internal cheerleader tricks, but damn I’m just tired.

One of my kiddos is being particularly needy and he’s had so much trauma and death in his life and he really trusts me to take care of him but ... it’s a lot.