I'm 17. Looking at linoleum makes me want to have sex.

Xander ,'First Date'


Natter 76: Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Foaminess  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Theodosia - Apr 09, 2020 10:50:34 am PDT #19567 of 30019
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

What the hell is a Maundy, anyway?

Work wasn't on the surface that stressy but my emotional and physical reserves were hella low, so I trudged my way through with pretty much dogged determination.

Too bad I don't get a three day weekend. But at least I do get a weekend...


Calli - Apr 09, 2020 10:57:50 am PDT #19568 of 30019
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

If anyone has a nice non-shooty game that I could play on my laptop without spending a ton of money, I would welcome recommendations!

If you have an iPad, Gwent is kinda fun. It's sort of like Magic: the Gathering, but in the Witcher universe.


Toddson - Apr 09, 2020 11:08:32 am PDT #19569 of 30019
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

Theo! I have the answer! The rector of my church is sending out daily reflections and a recent one had this:

It's called "Maundy" because of the new commandment (mandatum in Latin) that Jesus gives his disciples, which is to love one another.


meara - Apr 09, 2020 11:35:45 am PDT #19570 of 30019

So, "love each other Thursday"? Huh.

I'm feeling good in that my brain weasels aren't saying I'm horrible and awful, but feeling bad in the "don't want to do anything or get out of bed" way. I definitely prefer the lazy over the horrid self-talk, but my inability to do even normal things like laundry (much less learn a new language/clean the house/do a project) is gnawing at me.


Toddson - Apr 09, 2020 11:44:15 am PDT #19571 of 30019
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

Yes, but maintain your distance. To that end, the Pope is not doing his customary foot washing. (My church usually offers it as an option ... which I have never taken them up on. ick)


Jesse - Apr 09, 2020 11:47:31 am PDT #19572 of 30019
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

We did foot washing in Sunday School when I was in high school, and honestly, it was pretty powerful.

And not just the smell!


Cass - Apr 09, 2020 12:16:18 pm PDT #19573 of 30019
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

I'm having trouble dealing with suddenly not having a plan at all.

This is difficult for me as well. Like meara, I am struggling with laundry which shouldn't be that complicated.

I'm sorry for the delays, JZ. They are so emotionally fraught.


esse - Apr 09, 2020 12:48:46 pm PDT #19574 of 30019
S to the A -- using they/them pronouns!

Meara, the thing for me is that there is no right way to respond to a trauma like we're experiencing. The more we can just let ourselves do whatever it is that brings comfort (Stardew Valley!) the more we give ourselves the room to grieve and heal.

/guru talk


DavidS - Apr 09, 2020 12:54:16 pm PDT #19575 of 30019
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I'm sorry for the delays, JZ. They are so emotionally fraught.

Paperwork got processed and we're planning on a funeral tomorrow.

Of course, I don't have black pants and no way to get them in time either.


Topic!Cindy - Apr 09, 2020 1:30:28 pm PDT #19576 of 30019
What is even happening?

I lost the post, but I think Consuela said she's concerned about Gud. I am, too.

Hi esse. I see you there. I am a little slow on the uptake. I must have seen a handful of posts from you, including your coming out, before I put the letters in your tagline together with your current board name.

What the hell is a Maundy, anyway?

Theo! I have the answer! The rector of my church is sending out daily reflections and a recent one had this:

It's called "Maundy" because of the new commandment (mandatum in Latin) that Jesus gives his disciples, which is to love one another.

From Merrriam-Webster:

History and Etymology for maundy
Middle English maunde, from Old French mandé, from Latin mandatum command, order; from the words spoken by Jesus to his disciples after washing their feet at the Last Supper, "a new commandment I give unto you, that ye love one another" (John 13:34 Authorized Version)

So it's the mandate to love one another.

We did foot washing in Sunday School when I was in high school, and honestly, it was pretty powerful.

"Maundy" is the word for the foot-washing ceremony, which *is* a pretty big demonstration of love. When Jesus did it, he washed his disciples' feet, not the other way around.

Thank you for giving me something else to think about for two minutes, Buffistas.