It's my estimation that... every man ever got a statue made of him, was one kind of sumbitch or another.

Mal ,'Jaynestown'


Natter 76: Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Foaminess  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Nilly - Mar 16, 2020 12:28:59 am PDT #17835 of 30019
Swouncing

Maria, congratulations! Happy news in al this chaos is such a breath of fresh air. Life goes on, two good people build a life together. That's so important and so happy-making. MedicGuy is a lucky guy indeed, and with such a good taste!

ND and Pix - I wish there were anything I could do other than keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. It's such a hard time for everybody, but harder for some.

Strix, I hope all goes well with you're mother's procedure, its results, and all that's involved in that. And you.

meara, welcome home! In your honor, I do a (little) meara!

Kate, Trudy, Sophis, Sue, Laura, Zen, suela, aurelia, -t, sj, Hil, amyparker, lisah, Theo, Katerina Bee, billytea, Fiona, Una, bennett, Rick, dcp, Sue, Dana, Calli, Tom, Toddson, Fred, sparky, hippocampus, Beverly, Atropa, Gris, Epic, sarameg, Debet, PMM, Vortex, Matt, msbelle, Amy, Jesse, Jessica, flea, DxM, shrift, askye, Sheryl, Cindy, Cash, Hec, JZ, Teppy, Shir - oh, goodness, all of you. Sorry if I've missed your name in my quick scroll. You too.

I just wish there were anything, anything at all, that any one of us could do, to just make things a little easier. A little less scary and difficult. I mean, for me, part of it is you. I'm still in quarantine (until Thursday evening) and I have been for a week now. It's so difficult, and yet during this time of being alone in a room, not being able to touch any other human being, not being able to be there for my family, for PiBoy and Pi++Girl, I can reach out to all over the world and be as not-alone as one possibly can while still alone in a room. And it's not just a technical matter. It's much more meaningful and emtional.

I find that the longer the quarantine, the more I become a needy needing-outside-approval needy of a sap. I let go more and more of the technical stuff, because really there's nothing I can do from in here, and I have to trust the emotional well-being of these two wonderful children that are supposed to be in my care, the care I'm not allowed to give right now.

So I'm alone in a room without my immediate family, because that's the responsible thing to do for the bigger - well, not family. But still. For the bigger community. My town, my countly, the whole world. It's that big. And in being alone, one person behind a closed door in one room, that's what is actually connecting me to the ever-growing circles of the outside world. And you.

And now, I should return to learning how to efficiently teach online. Connect to my student and fellow lecturers, as well, I guess.

Thank you, all, for being here. Take care.


Strix - Mar 16, 2020 12:29:42 am PDT #17836 of 30019
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

I have gotten 1.5 hours if patchy sleep, my mother has gotten none, she's taking the 2nd half of her prep mix RN, and she hasn't stopped shitting since 8 p.m.

I haven't gotten any sleep and my 76 y.o. mother is currently weeping hysterically at 430 a.m. at the thought of sitting in her own shit between starting on the way to the hospital from the house, to the prep suite.

Also my mom's house only has one bathroom, and MY stomach reacts badly to anxiety. And I just started my first cup of coffee. This is, quite literally, a shitshow.

Thank you for the -ma; we are in need of it desperately rn.


Nilly - Mar 16, 2020 12:42:29 am PDT #17837 of 30019
Swouncing

Oh, Strix. Hugs from afar and all the possible ¬ma.


Strix - Mar 16, 2020 12:48:13 am PDT #17838 of 30019
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

::insert gif of frazzled, wild-eyed, middle-aged woman::

Bless, Nilly...💗


Nilly - Mar 16, 2020 12:54:49 am PDT #17839 of 30019
Swouncing

It will be behind you. It'll take some effort and work and time, no denying that, but there will be a time that all of thise will be behind you and the both of you will get some rest and feel better. You will.

Even more ¬ma and love from across the ocean, the way that's allowed in quarantine.


Zenkitty - Mar 16, 2020 1:44:02 am PDT #17840 of 30019
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Oh, Strix, your poor mom.

It will be behind you.

I'm going to keep this in mind today. Today will be rough. Tomorrow is likely to be rougher.

Universe, I'm tired. I haven't had one whole year in my whole life when I wasn't stressed the hell out about something. Can we just calm the fuck down?


Strix - Mar 16, 2020 2:12:56 am PDT #17841 of 30019
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

My sister is up. She's calling in to work. I came up here so she could work today, but this is now a 2 person job.

Oh my god, I'm so tired.


askye - Mar 16, 2020 2:14:45 am PDT #17842 of 30019
Thrive to spite them

I missed a call from work. Our new hours are now 11-6 daily. We can be there 15 mins early and we leave asap.

We can use PTO to make up the difference in our hours. I know I just got them to change my hourly pay but I am going to go and ask if they can undo that and keep me at my old pay. O will be extremely apologitic for being so much a hassle but dude this is huge and I got bills to pay. Unless those get cancelled


DXMachina - Mar 16, 2020 2:36:43 am PDT #17843 of 30019
You always do this. We get tipsy, and you take advantage of my love of the scientific method.

I don't know if we eat weird food that doesn't get sold out, or what.

The Groceries That No One Wants to Panic-Buy


lisah - Mar 16, 2020 2:48:04 am PDT #17844 of 30019
Punishingly Intricate

Sending you love, Nilly!!

Strix, hope you and your Mom have good, hassle free experience at the hospital today.

I'm up and working from home, as usual, but I am dressed and I'm going to put on makeup. It seems like a good challenge.