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Natter 76: Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Foaminess  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Gudanov - Nov 04, 2018 6:31:02 am PST #1527 of 30019
Coding and Sleeping

I have a working arcade cabinet now.

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The sides are made but not attached yet, same for the top. Still not sure what I want to do for the light up marquee. The light up part is ready but I don't have anything for it yet. I played a couple of games of Galaga and a game of 1943 this morning.


Gudanov - Nov 04, 2018 6:32:53 am PST #1528 of 30019
Coding and Sleeping

It's going to look pretty homemade, especially since I messed up a few places and just called it good enough.


Sophia Brooks - Nov 04, 2018 6:39:21 am PST #1529 of 30019
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

I also say Nanoryemo.

So, I don't have a lot of people to talk to about this, but I need reassurance. Long story short, last May I recieved my new job description, which basically took the work I was doing in recruitment and retention, and the work I was doing in instructional design, and changed it to "support the director of these programs by updating her calendar and processing reimbursements for her". I was then offered a created for me instructional design postion, which I leapt at, because anything to get away from that. I was pretty clear that I was afraid it was going to be boring and I would rather be doing recruitment and retention but I was told that no opportunities would be available in that field.

FF- I am bored and stultified, and now a position has opened up that would seem like a title promotion (Assistant Director of Enrollment Management vs Instructional Design Assistant) but a pay grade demotion. This is because ( as I told them) no one understood what I was doing and me leaving the job left a hole.

My plan is to apply for the "demotion" to assistant director, but I feel so bad for all the people who went to bat for me to get me in the new position (which I kind of hate) I have come up with some strategies to make me hate it less - like more interaction with faculty, solving more problems, more interaction with students and more visual and "instructions" control over the online offerings, but ultimately, I think everyone would be happier with a real instructional designer and me in recruitment and retention.

I have a meeting Monday to talk this over with the department administrator, but I need reassurance that I am doing the right thing. As soon as I realized it was an option, every cell in my body relaxed, but I don't want people to hate me!


Steph L. - Nov 04, 2018 6:51:10 am PST #1530 of 30019
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

I have a working arcade cabinet now.

Gud, that's so cool! You are so talented!

I need reassurance that I am doing the right thing.

I think your very next sentence is your reassurance:

As soon as I realized it was an option, every cell in my body relaxed

I understand not wanting people to hate you, but -- this is your career, your life. You have to do what's best for you, not what's going to make people think more kindly of you.


Dana - Nov 04, 2018 6:53:10 am PST #1531 of 30019
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Steph is right. No one benefits from your being miserable.


Gudanov - Nov 04, 2018 7:00:42 am PST #1532 of 30019
Coding and Sleeping

It seems like the right call to me. You don't want to be bored and stultified.


Jessica - Nov 04, 2018 7:49:30 am PST #1533 of 30019
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Sophia, I did a similar thing when I transfered to my current position, and even though I have some mixed feelings, there is no question that it was ultimately the right move. (I miss the amount of money I was making before, and stepping down a level is a big difference in how people treat you at this company, but OTOH I no longer spend 2 hours a day crying while sitting in traffic in NJ, and since this role is so much less stressful I have the mental energy I need to focus on school.)


-t - Nov 04, 2018 7:51:35 am PST #1534 of 30019
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Sounds like a good move for you, Sophia.


WindSparrow - Nov 04, 2018 9:37:08 am PST #1535 of 30019
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Ryan makes me happy.

Gud, that cabinet is excellent.


Calli - Nov 04, 2018 10:09:23 am PST #1536 of 30019
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Very nice, Gud!

Sophia, you'll be spending 1/3 of your life, five out of seven days a week for the next several years, doing something. If that something can be an activity you actually like, I think you should go for it.