We're still working on a plan, but so far it involves being sent to prison and becoming somebody's bitch.

Fred ,'Just Rewards (2)'


Natter 76: Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Foaminess  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


dcp - Nov 26, 2019 8:49:14 am PST #14050 of 30019
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

Does anyone have knowledge on how to start freelancing?

Zenkitty - don't forget about the consequences to your income tax preparation. Most freelancers receive a form 1099-MISC. Will your employer be withholding any taxes for you? Will you be filing a Schedule C? Will you be able to claim any expenses?

I cannot offer tax advice, but I can point you toward some resources. Profile address is good.


Beverly - Nov 26, 2019 9:09:30 am PST #14051 of 30019
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Have I told this story before? Before we picked up StE's ashes, I searched for antique and vintage silver snuffboxes, pillboxes, and matchsafes, H spent some time spooning a thimbleful of ashes into each container and soldering them closed.

We made one for each of his kids, one for his brother, two for H and I have three, two of which can be worn as a pendant.

To some people it seems macabre, but for us it was, and remains, comforting. We've scattered his ashes in places he loved, and in places he'd wanted to see but never got to visit. We scattered some at a family only service at a local landmark with a gorgeous view, so his kids will have someplace to "visit" him.


lisah - Nov 26, 2019 9:47:26 am PST #14052 of 30019
Punishingly Intricate

Jesse, we seem to have the same job today.


Jesse - Nov 26, 2019 9:53:32 am PST #14053 of 30019
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I did a little! But not enough. We are allowed to leave at 1 tomorrow, but I don't think I'll actually make it out by then.

My mother already wants to make plans for Christmas, and I've been trying to get her to go to the movies for years, so I just looked to see what will be playing, and it's Little Women! She will definitely go for that. Now if I can just get her to turn down the annoying person's dinner invitation.


amyparker - Nov 26, 2019 10:02:58 am PST #14054 of 30019
You've got friends to have good times with. When you need to share the trauma of a badly-written book with someone, that's when you go to family.

Everyone in the Denver office at Jim's employer was told to work from home today - someone said in the Slack channel that he was measuring three feet of snow in his backyard. Here there has been light rain, with hummingbirds checking the balcony for snacks.

My next-door neighbors are in town for the week, and it's weird. They bought the place as a retirement property and only visit from Connecticut a few times a year, so hearing the outer door open and close when we're not expecting company or a package means a moment of "Wait, what? Oh, right, Richard and Julie are here."


Steph L. - Nov 26, 2019 10:05:34 am PST #14055 of 30019
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Everyone in the Denver office at Jim's employer was told to work from home today - someone said in the Slack channel that he was measuring three feet of snow in his backyard.

Yeah, my brother has been texting me with updated snowfall totals, with increasingly clever-yet-furious profanity. That's way too much snow.


Laura - Nov 26, 2019 10:07:03 am PST #14056 of 30019
Our wings are not tired.

That's nice, Beverly. I would find that comforting too.

My customer's being closed for a few days means I get to spend more time working. Whee!

I've been trying to spend less time working, and being somewhat successful. I've watched the first season of Twin Peaks, which I missed previously in life. Debating whether to go see DH's basketball team play tonight or chill here.


Jesse - Nov 26, 2019 10:33:57 am PST #14057 of 30019
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Three feet of snow??? It's not even December yet!


Theodosia - Nov 26, 2019 11:10:35 am PST #14058 of 30019
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

I had four work-related passenger trips today, which is a lot! Happily two of the four resident-passengers were going to find their own way home, so that was only SIX actual rides. Two of them with The Bus, but I was really noticing that the traffic in Harvard Square dropped off noticeably -- the result of some people taking this as a vacation week, or leaving on Tuesday to avoid Wednesday Travel Hell Day. Even a 2-5% slackening adds up to freer-feeling traffic.

We had potluck lunch for staff today -- I made cupcakes. It's still kind of unexpected to have Coworkers and things like Holidays Off.

Also one of the residents gave a LARGE box of Serenade Chocolates to the staff. They are a m a z i n g.


amyparker - Nov 26, 2019 11:20:23 am PST #14059 of 30019
You've got friends to have good times with. When you need to share the trauma of a badly-written book with someone, that's when you go to family.

Theo, that's a huge difference! WSDOT is telling drivers here to double or triple the normal expected travel times, starting tomorrow; Ken is leaving Rupert the Mini at home and riding the bus. (Also cheaper: it's $25 round trip to bring a vehicle on the ferry, but only $8 to walk on.)

ETA: uh-oh, my goddaughter up on Whidbey is probably cursing a blue streak, as a bunch of the evening sailings on Wednesday and Thursday have been cancelled because of tidal currents.