That sucks Theo. I just dreamt the locksmith came back and painted my bathroom and charged me a huge amount!

I won't lie that the paid holiday helped And there were a few years where I got paid holidays at both jobs, plus time and a half for working at Penney's. It was good Christmas money.

I am a little at loose ends today, but have decided to clean out my closet so Aidan can take things to the curb again.

Gudanov. Do you have an employee assistance program at work where you can talk to someone? Mine really rescued me when I felt like the biggest screw up in the last few weeks. I think you should try. It is terrible to feel like this, and they are usually free. It was so hard to call, but they got me a counselor on the phone right away and then someone gave up their lunch hour to fit me in.

Timelies all!

Mr. S is having a meltdown because Gary won't let him watch something on Gary's tablet. Mr. S has been watching tv since early this morning, so he needs a break. Of course he doesn't see it that way. sigh...

Spoke too soon on the mouse front. Petunia is killing on right now. But I have mouse traps.

Sheryl, ltc lost most of her TV privileges for today last night for terrible behavior. So I feel you.

Go Petunia!

For askye: my sister was in a crowded store during the Christmas rush. One struggling employee was working her way through a backed up line of customers. This one guy got impatient and started yelling and insulting her for being slow and stupid. My sister, bless her heart, loudly told him to shut up and remember his manners. Guy got huffy and threatened to call the manager on her. Sister laughed and told him to go right ahead - she didn't work there and she'd like to see what would happen. All the customers laughed and the loudmouth turned bright red and kept quiet.

Love that story!

Gudanov, you really must talk to some therapist-type person to put your mistakes in perspective. (I mean, I'm the one who was obsessing a good part of the night over something that I can't do anything about 15 years on.)

I think Petunia is a little upset I took the dead mouse away!

Gudnov people make mistakes. PLEASE PLEASE reach out to someone.

I'm on Facebook. IM me. Send me am email. I'm at work right now but if you need to vent or something send me a long vent IM and I'll respond as soon as I can

My brother's friend texted and said he's taking my brother to the hospital. Thank god. So now I get to tell my parents. (My brother really believed he could do an at-home taper with beer like he did when I was there in 2016, and it would go smoothly -- which it did in 2016 -- and he didn't want to tell our parents until he was done and on the sober side of this relapse, because our dad will be a dick about it and our mom will go full drama queen and make it about her, and he just couldn't deal with that while he was trying to get sober. So when my brother asked me to not tell our parents, I agreed, because he was right -- our parents would not have reactions that are supportive to him. But agreeing to not tell them was contingent on this whole at-home taper working out, which it clearly has not. Going to the hospital is the clear bright goddamn line where I call the parents. Which is going to suck.)

I'm relieved he'll be getting medical attention, but my stress level isn't any lower.