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'Bring On The Night'


Natter 76: Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Foaminess  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Jesse - Oct 03, 2019 11:53:38 am PDT #12035 of 30019
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

What do I get for a recently engaged couple that is visiting from out of state?

So, something they will have to carry back with them? I'd probably go with a gift certificate for someplace near where they live?

Disclaimer: I have never bought an engagement gift.


sj - Oct 03, 2019 12:00:44 pm PDT #12036 of 30019
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

So, something they will have to carry back with them? I'd probably go with a gift certificate for someplace near where they live?

Yes. I thought of that, but I really have no idea what is good near them. It's my brother-in-law and his girlfriend of many years who I like a lot. So, I really should get them something.


Sheryl - Oct 03, 2019 12:01:22 pm PDT #12037 of 30019
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

As we live in the DC-area, we subscribe to the Post, dead tree edition.

So stressed about Mr. S and his behavior, and I can't seem to calm down for long. Ugh.


Jesse - Oct 03, 2019 12:01:45 pm PDT #12038 of 30019
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Can you just treat them to a special dinner, or does it need to be something physical to give them?


sj - Oct 03, 2019 12:13:10 pm PDT #12039 of 30019
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

They won't be here long enough. I'll only see them at a family gathering.


Amy - Oct 03, 2019 1:30:26 pm PDT #12040 of 30019
Because books.

sj, what about a good basic cookbook, something with lots of nice pictures?

Sheryl, can you see someone for yourself, for some support?


Theodosia - Oct 03, 2019 3:49:10 pm PDT #12041 of 30019
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

Sheryl, what Amy said. You need all the support you can get, and also some professional coaching on how to deal with him the best way for your both. It has to be so wearying for both you and Gary.


Sheryl - Oct 03, 2019 4:10:37 pm PDT #12042 of 30019
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

I've been seeing a therapist regularly for a number of years to deal with anxiety. I also went to a support group for parents of kids with ADHD last night. It meets once a month. The other parents are dealing with older kids than Mr. S(all school age)., so some of the things they were talking about didn't apply. Still, a potentially useful resource.


Consuela - Oct 03, 2019 4:17:49 pm PDT #12043 of 30019
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

Sorry I disappeared yesterday! The As lost, which was sad, and it took 90 minutes to get from our seats to the BART station a couple hundred yards away. I've never seen a crowd half that size in Oakland.

In better news, the puppy showed up at his own building the next morning! He's a bit beat up, and he's in a cone, but he's fine.


Laura - Oct 03, 2019 4:21:56 pm PDT #12044 of 30019
Our wings are not tired.

That's good. The older kids were Mr. S's age at one time so maybe some veteran help. Children at that age are exhausting in the best of circumstances.