Can you just treat them to a special dinner, or does it need to be something physical to give them?
Never send a minion to do a god's work.
Glory ,'The Killer In Me'
Natter 76: Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Foaminess
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
Jesse - Oct 03, 2019 12:01:45 pm PDT #12038 of 30019
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.
sj - Oct 03, 2019 12:13:10 pm PDT #12039 of 30019
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
They won't be here long enough. I'll only see them at a family gathering.
Amy - Oct 03, 2019 1:30:26 pm PDT #12040 of 30019
Because books.
sj, what about a good basic cookbook, something with lots of nice pictures?
Sheryl, can you see someone for yourself, for some support?
Theodosia - Oct 03, 2019 3:49:10 pm PDT #12041 of 30019
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"
Sheryl, what Amy said. You need all the support you can get, and also some professional coaching on how to deal with him the best way for your both. It has to be so wearying for both you and Gary.
Sheryl - Oct 03, 2019 4:10:37 pm PDT #12042 of 30019
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"
I've been seeing a therapist regularly for a number of years to deal with anxiety. I also went to a support group for parents of kids with ADHD last night. It meets once a month. The other parents are dealing with older kids than Mr. S(all school age)., so some of the things they were talking about didn't apply. Still, a potentially useful resource.
Consuela - Oct 03, 2019 4:17:49 pm PDT #12043 of 30019
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix
Sorry I disappeared yesterday! The As lost, which was sad, and it took 90 minutes to get from our seats to the BART station a couple hundred yards away. I've never seen a crowd half that size in Oakland.
In better news, the puppy showed up at his own building the next morning! He's a bit beat up, and he's in a cone, but he's fine.
Laura - Oct 03, 2019 4:21:56 pm PDT #12044 of 30019
Our wings are not tired.
That's good. The older kids were Mr. S's age at one time so maybe some veteran help. Children at that age are exhausting in the best of circumstances.
-t - Oct 03, 2019 5:10:45 pm PDT #12045 of 30019
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
90 minutes! That is hard to imagine, and I've been in some serious pedestrian jams out there. Glad the puppet got home!
((Sheryl)) That must be hard, being on alert all the time.
Amy - Oct 04, 2019 7:00:08 am PDT #12046 of 30019
Because books.
::whispering:: Where is everybody?
sj - Oct 04, 2019 7:35:36 am PDT #12047 of 30019
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Watching TV and reading emails.