We have to see the chimp playing hockey! That's hilarious! The ice is so slippery, and, and monkeys are all irrational. We have to see this!

Anya ,'Bring On The Night'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


askye - Nov 15, 2025 3:32:26 pm PST #8267 of 8356
Thrive to spite them

I'm really sorry Erika


askye - Nov 15, 2025 3:35:04 pm PST #8268 of 8356
Thrive to spite them

So I haven't gotten another period after the one hat messed up my almost a year without.

I noticed changes in my cycle when I was around 40. I'm 52 now. So 12 years of changes and I hope I really am done .


erikaj - Nov 15, 2025 3:52:43 pm PST #8269 of 8356
"Somewhere in this building is our talent." Toby Ziegler, my spirit animal

It's sad, but she'll never have a case review ever again. That's not all bad.(That's how hard the system makes this, that part of me thinks about the lucky part.)ETA: She would probably never see it that way; I'm amazed by her ability to still feel like something came next, despite all the struggling. Hard to believe I'm old enough to be a mentor--I can't do it, but in theory. Still sort of think my period might come back, but it walloped me last time, so, no hurry.


erikaj - Nov 17, 2025 2:55:30 pm PST #8270 of 8356
"Somewhere in this building is our talent." Toby Ziegler, my spirit animal

cereal: having trouble with the concept of "disabled ancestor"(Are we all supposed to be related and nobody told me?!(Considers relations with extended family and most disabled people I know for longer than, like, a panel.) (Oz voice Actually, that might explain a lot.(/Oz)


Trudy Booth - Nov 17, 2025 3:27:37 pm PST #8271 of 8356
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Maybe you sire each other like vampires.

(Activist-wise)


erikaj - Nov 17, 2025 4:04:53 pm PST #8272 of 8356
"Somewhere in this building is our talent." Toby Ziegler, my spirit animal

yeah, maybe.


Pix - Nov 18, 2025 1:06:56 pm PST #8273 of 8356
The status is NOT quo.

So sorry, erika.


erikaj - Nov 18, 2025 2:13:30 pm PST #8274 of 8356
"Somewhere in this building is our talent." Toby Ziegler, my spirit animal

I feel weird about how often I have always survived people. Sometimes it feels like on "Rescue Me", how Tommy the asshole survived better guys-- not that I carry on like Tommy, obviously--part of me wishes.


erikaj - Dec 09, 2025 2:24:28 pm PST #8275 of 8356
"Somewhere in this building is our talent." Toby Ziegler, my spirit animal

For a moment today, thought my new haircut was a bit like "Section 504 Comes To Parris Island" short, but now I think it's growing on me.


erikaj - Dec 23, 2025 4:34:21 pm PST #8276 of 8356
"Somewhere in this building is our talent." Toby Ziegler, my spirit animal

(Hangs mistletoe in thread, dims lights)