Woo, 40! Hope it's a lovely day with no tantrums or migraines.
This!
Wishes for all to have a day, or week, or year without pain. A serious decline in frustrations and annoyances would be cool too.
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Woo, 40! Hope it's a lovely day with no tantrums or migraines.
This!
Wishes for all to have a day, or week, or year without pain. A serious decline in frustrations and annoyances would be cool too.
hugs smonster and hil and anyone else who needs 'em.
Can I vague vent here? I am feeling like there's some serious dismissiveness and gaslighting going on around trans issues elsewhere and like it's being glossed over because most people there see other areas of marginalization as more valid and are making excuses for a repeat offender who is good about other areas of marginalization. And it's depresssing the crap outta me.
I haven't read all of the threads, Plei, but I agree.
ION, I'm looking at my Facebook feed, and I keep seeing more invitations to health care rallies. I think I'm up to at least four in Cincinnati and one in Columbus (and I'm sure there are a lot more in Columbus that I haven't been invited to) within a three-day period. Which is good, but I kind of feel like that might mean that each individual one might have fewer people, rather than one big crowd that might get more attention.
I am not saying anything, because I don't think it's helpful at this point, but man, it sucks.
Like, person, you are acting exactly like other people called on their stuff! Doubling down and getting defensive! How are you not seeing this? And no, marginalized people were not singled out for call outs! (Though this also illustates some of my issues with call out culture.)
Preach it, Plei. And no one can say anything because then we're dismissing an individual who belongs to a marginalized group.
I think I'm glad to be out of the loop on this one.
Vague vent received and nodded tiredly at.
Be so glad. The passive aggressive level is off the charts.
The really sad thing is, I skipped over that thread, and when I saw a lot of stuff about transphobic threads I thought it was a whole other thread that had ALSO devolved into TERFy nonsense.