I should have added and nothing that requires me to do more than put in product and let it air dry. I can’t blow dry my hair with the pain in my hands most days. My hair has a slight wave these days.

I never use a hair dryer. Partly because my hair is so thin it dries in no time at all, and partly because of the heat. When it is blown dry it looks better, but I'm never going to do it unless I am in a real hurry.

I bet that Hec might see the haircut signal and have some thoughts tonight. My own cut is one of vw's rejected options after a similar request, I think.

French bob!!!

I’m not sure I want to commit to the upkeep of bangs.

I get mine cut maybe once every couple of months. But you don’t necessarily need to have bangs. Search #frenchbob on IG.

If you know people in the entertainment business who build sets or such and are having problems making ends meet, you might point them to the construction Industry. Companies are having serious problems finding construction workers and would probably love to hire an experienced set carpenter or other trade.

I agree with the French bob idea. I got one a couple of years ago when my grays started coming in wavy, and it works really well. I also shampoo, comb, and air dry, so it's pretty low maintenance.

I’ve looked up a bunch of French bob styles and put them on my Pinterest board to show my hairdresser whenever I actually make an appointment.

I also think you should ask the hairdresser. A good stylist will know what will look good on your face and with your specific hair. I've brought pictures lots of times that my beloved Erica looks at and is, like, "Yep...that's nice, but not for you. Let's try this, instead." She's always right.